I can't say I am completely stressed out yet (mine has been postponed to May 2021) but I definitely have my Plan A (40 person ceremony, 100 person reception) Plan B (just 40 people for the entire thing, plus the vendors), and Plan C (we get married anyways, with our parents and photographer and then we celebrate the following summer with everyone, in a fun backyard space in the country).
Never hurts to have backup plans! That way, at least I find the stress reduces quite a bit. You're covered no matter what.
My original date is June 19, 2021 and I am worried too! Things are opening up but until there’s a vaccine, weddings won’t look like they used to and there will always be stress involved with large gatherings. There’s always a chance a vaccine will be ready for our weddings but it definitely has me nervous too.
We just postponed our April 2020 wedding and we’re going to reschedule for the end of the year but thought it would be safer to reschedule for April 2021. Our area is just now getting another outbreak and I’m totally starting to panic that we’ll have to postpone AGAIN 😬
I would be worried though knowing my guests would be safer to fly out when the clear is given and celebrated with them present. Postponing would be the choice to make than to lose everything put into the day's ceremony/reception.
The same goes for planning an Anniversary party which will happen in 2 years to make it 5 years and have 3 couples celebrating 1 time as 2 of us (childhood friend) got married the same day 1 year after us. The third couple 1 year after us the day before. It would give a reason to have more guests to celebrate as one.
Yup I feel this. While we have not officially postponed we are working to that, for Oct 2021 and there is a part of me that is nervous its still going to be an issue. If we have to cancel next years, I am not sure I can handle it. It doesn't help either that alot of people around me keep telling me that there are no guarantees in life now and I just have to accept that it will be what it will be and to maybe not be attached to the wedding we want. Like are you kidding me? When did this become our reality, that we can't get excited for weddings anymore?
So here is to hoping that things are normal by spring 2021 and we can all have our dream days!
Hey! I'm worried but pushing on through with my wedding planning. I actually just booked my venue this week for July 2021 and am hoping for the best. I thought about booking for 2022 due to covid but we dont want to wait an extra year. Crossing my fingers and hoping for the best. One thing covid has shown me is all the unique ideas that people have come up with for more smaller and intimate weddings. So covid or not next year I'm still planning to get married!