I got a call from 1 of my MOHs who told me our Moms & Wedding Party feel it would be better if I knew the date, time and location of my Bridal Shower. It is this Sunday at 3:15. I am excited for sure but also very nervous. I have no clue of any details or who will be attending which I like. I was married 20 Years ago but this is my FHs 1st marriage. I feel embarrassed that this is not my 1st Shower to be completely honest. My fh and People close to me said it was natural to have a Shower because this is for my FH and I, not anything to do with my past. This is FMILs chance to have her Family and Friends attend a Shower for her Child after all the Wedding and Baby showers shes attended. My fmil has 2 Boys with no Kids and they're thrilled at 47 one of their Sons is getting married. I worry far too much about what People think. I was told that some People have said why is there a Shower for a couple in their mid 40's, showers are to help 20 something couples with their start out needs. I know some People are not impressed (so I've heard) that we didn't register anywhere but as of today we have been 2gether for 8 1/2 Years. Once we took registering for a honeymoon off the table, there was no store we could think to register at. My Mom and 1 MOH asked fh & I for a list of favorite stores so we said any restaurant, Bed, bath beyond, home depot and anywhere at all. I did register for approx 12 things at Bed Bath and Beyond as they have a comforter set I'd love but it was never announced as I did it last wk lol. I have my dress and shoes picked out. Now I want to stop feeling guilty and have nothing but excitement running through me!!! If you have had your Shower, what did you do to prepare? Thank you for listening.
