As I am sure everyone is aware...we are in a pandemic. My fiancé and I were supposed to get married on April 25, 2020. Well our venue is closed until May and gatherings over 15 people are not permitted. My fiancé and I are both first responders so we decided we are going to Elope, this weekend the 11th! Nobody but my dad knows, but he doesn't know when. we were still going to get married on the 25th with just family but due to how quickly things changed with his parents in nova scotia and my mom being extremely immunocompromised we made this decision and we made the decision not to tell my mother until after, I know that this is not what a lot of people would choose however she has been insistant that despite everything going on she was going to be there and the last time she got a normal case of pneumonia, let alone one with no treatment history, she was in the ICU in a coma for 5 days, I can not risk her health especially since we deal with the public daily still. So it will be me, my groom, the officiant and two witnesses. I don't know what to wear, yes I have my dress but it seems way to formal for the situation and I feel like it will not feel the same. But also currently all retail stores are closed and online ordering would not come in on time. I need suggestions and also is it ok to not wear white?