Hi Ladies
My fiancé and I have been engaged for a year and a half now and will be getting married Sept of 2018. this entire time I have not been able to narrow down my bridesmaids. I have two sisters one who i'm close to, the other who is much younger that isn't really involved too much in my life at the moment, id love her to be a bridesmaid and reached out numerous times without a response. So my one sister for sure will be a bridesmaid and my best friend since high school will be a MOH.
We are having a small wedding 60 people and my fiancé is having his brother and best friend. so keeping it two and two is perhaps the best way to go.
Here's the issue.. I have another friend that i'm close to that I think are expecting me to make them a bridesmaid and are always hinting at dress ideas, made me a bridesmaid in their wedding.. etc... I havn't fully committed to anyone else in my wedding party but I really don't want to hurt this girls feelings if I don't make her a bridesmaid. There are other friends id likely ask before her but i'm stuck on not wanting to hurt her feelings....Also holding on hope that the younger sister will eventually want to be part of my wedding as I had always dreamed
I'm sure some of you ladies have encountered this sort of scenario before and id like for my other girlfriends to be part of the other aspects of wedding planning.. ie.. DIYs, picking out wedding dress..etc but really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
