How would you like your FH to dress on your big day?

C was for my husband same way.

Love the relaxed look of E

He is wearing something similar to A

That's a great start Synthyce! You can also take a look at these ideas for more ideas for the grooms and groomsmen:

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I like the suspenders! It will be very classy! Do the people in your wedding party all know each other?

Those are really cute ideas! I may need to re-think my idea haha

He'll be in dark gray with a plum tie. the groomsmen will have bow ties and suspenders in plum color to match my bridesmaids. that's the only matching that's going on. he likes fancy shoes so he might be in a white pair. I don't know.

That will look very classy!! What colours did you choose for your wedding? Will he wear a matching tie?

That's beautiful Lori! It's going to be so intimate! You could check out these ideas to decorate your venue! It's going to be so much fun

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Will you make a bonfire in the evening? That would be so cozy!

Hey Lindsay Hope you had a great weekend! I think that's a really cute idea

You could also go for something like these:

But I love the socks idea! I think it's really sweet

Thanks! Very much what we are going for!

Later that night we are hosting a celebration "party" for extended family and friends....but that will just be snacks, booze and dancing to celebrate

That sounds relaxing and intimate, love it.

Definitely A. suit with vest and tie . In a dark gray

We're not, our ceremony will only have 14 people (including the photographers!) so a bridal party seemed a bit heavy handed. My sister will witness for me, and at my mother's insistance she will wear a yellow or green dress.

Thanks for that. Are you not having a bridal party?

This doesn't sound restricted at all- sounds gentle, but still cohesive. I think those tones will look great. Not having "hard rules" gives you more options too.

I also like the boho bridesmaids idea- probably how I would roll if I had a bridal party!

Honestly i havent set on colours specifily but more hues, whites and golds and beige and soft pink, sort of pastels. I know it sounds like it could be a mess but i dont want to restrict myself at all. Im thinking of boho and beige for my brides maids.

His tie is a deep red

Water front**

The idea came to me so I googled cottages in the area for rent. We found ours on a site www.VRBO.com

This is the one we chose. They are also doing upgrades over the spring and summer.

https://www.vrbo.com/4200689ha?unitId=4604087

I've thought about it, but I still don't know what to do. I will likely send him a little love note and maybe some nice socks with a rag that says in case you get cold feet

Woooooow! I love the idea!! How does the water cottage look like? How did you find it?

Everything was sooooo expensive so we decided to rent a water cottage for a weekend! Great views for pics and atmosphere. Its going to be a relaxed elegant BBQ

Hahaha we'll see! I think he'll probably listen Will you get him a gift for the wedding? Or a love letter to read before walking down the aisle?

That's great Lori! What type of venue did you book for the wedding?

Great choice Alexandra! Welcome to the community!! Congrats on your recent engagement!! How's everything going so far? If there's anything we can help with, let us know! That's what the community's for! What style do you want for your wedding? Will it be more rustic or elegant?

Haha I asked him to not completely shave but to trim it short. hopefully he will listen...

and more of a shabby chic look. Some vintage with modern decor =)

ooop! I meat C! haha

Very elegant Lindsay! I'm sure he will look very elegant in this suit! What do you think he'll do with his beard? Groom style. Beard or No Beard?

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Do you think he'll go for something different than usual?

I like C for our wedding

Hey Charlene, great choice! I like the light colour suit! I find them more relaxed and romantic What will be the colour of his tie?

Very stylish!! It's in between rustic and elegant! Is that the style you're going for at your wedding?

Great choice! What are your wedding colours Rory?