How long did it take your bridesmaids to respond to your “will you be my bridesmaid?” letter?

So update 2 - The other bridesmaid who actually got my letter said no 😭 trying to decide now if I want to ask someone else or if I should have a party of three. I do have another person I’d like to ask but I’m definitely bummed that she said no.

Update - one of the letters was sent to the wrong address and was returned to me (luckily for the one bridesmaid who lives in town so I’ve made plans to meet her to ask in person!). The other one I haven’t heard from yet but I messaged her earlier to see if she got it so fingers crossed she did!

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That's so great to hear!

View quoted message That’s true Canada Post can take forever lol - just got a response today from my Toronto bridesmaid she said yes!

It may have been a week since you sent it but it takes 3 days for the receiver to get it (and last weekend was Thanksgiving so mail is delayed).

View quoted message Alright I’ll give it til next week - I’m a chronic over thinker lol

I would maybe just call them and ask if they recieved them

It seems they would respond within a week if anything. Beyond that time, calling them to find out is the only possible answer to find to do and see if they got the letter as well.