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Devoted July 2019 Ontario

Having problems with a Bridesmaid

Donna, on March 14, 2019 at 00:37 Posted in Wedding fashion 0 4

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With my Wedding being 4 months away my last bridesmaid my sister in law is giving me the run around. First oh you've got plenty of time. Now it's like she's running around with her head cut off. I found a dress but it's going to take 4 months for delivery what that's a no no right there. change name Gloria for privacy has been trying to get out of this. Making excuses up why she shouldn't come with us. Oh I need a babysitter for my dog, for real. I just email Gloria n said that her brothers can babysit her dog. Gloria's name is already on all invites. Unless I get Gloria to change places with the grown bestie that's going to be my flower girl Lucy.
Help me out I'm going crazy ty

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Latest activity by Donna, on March 14, 2019 at 19:25

Devoted July 2019 Ontario
Donna · On March 14, 2019 at 19:25
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I am so greatful that you girls are all here when in time of need, Yes Gloria got back too me and mentioned how sorry she was to me. She is getting the steel blue bridesmaid dress earlier then later good because I just let it go, I was so over whelmed with everything. But it all turned out for the best thank you for all saying those nice words. Because it always comes in handy for other women like myself are there willing, ready and available for HELP.
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Master October 2019 Ontario
Allison · On March 14, 2019 at 13:00
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I agree and be straight up with her. Give her a list of the things she needs to sort out in order to be in the wedding party. If she can't commit/complete her tasks, I would tell her she's welcome to enjoy the wedding as a guest, but unfortunately it'll be too stressful to have her in the wedding party.
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Master October 2019 Ontario
Casey · On March 14, 2019 at 09:58
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I agree with Tori. You need to tell her straight up. This is your day, and if she is going to be such a pain in the butt, I would just let her know what needs to be done, and if she can't then unfortunately she cannot be part of it.
I seriously do not understand why people have to be so difficult when it comes to being in a wedding. It makes things so much worse after the wedding, because you know how that person acted on the most important day of your life
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Top October 2019 Manitoba
Tori · On March 14, 2019 at 09:48
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Honestly? I would tell her what's what. Let her know that she has already waited so long that at this point you may need to buy off the rack and either she finds time within the next 2 weeks - or she is out of the wedding party. I'm sure it may take a little time, but with me being me, I would have no problem explaining why she was no longer in the wedding party.
Also note that my BM's have been told that if they don't get a dress in time or if they don't fit into it (2 of them ordered their dress 1-2 sizes smaller than what they are), that they are out of the wedding party and pictures. I don't like having mismatch numbers for BM-GM ratio but I don't like having the wrong colour even more.
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