Guys is this too extravagant?

View quoted message I ended up getting a new one because I hated it.

I think they flow very well together

View quoted message Thanks love. That's very kind of you. It will get sorted out.

View quoted message Aww I'm so sorry its causing you anxiety. At the end of the day it's only your opinion that matters. Yiu have the final say. You will make the best choice for you. And it will be beautiful.

View quoted message I appreciate the advice. All of the messages from people have given me terrible anxiety attacks and I'm now buying her a third bridesmaid dress. I'm so frustrated but it is what it is...

I just asked my MOH her thoughts and she said it could easily be a wedding dress for someone else. We all want our bridal party to look stunning. I personally think it is a little too fancy for a bridesmaid dress. But it may suit the style of your wedding and that's all that matters. Your dress is stunning and very bridal. You will not be out shined at all.

View quoted message That is true. I see my seamstress monday. I will take it to her and see what she says.

It's definitely a little more extravagant than most wedding party dresses you see, but I personally don't think it'll outshine you. There could be an option of altering it to take some of the "extravagance" from it (i.e. make the skirt less poofy). She has to get it taken in anyways, and seamstresses can really work some magic!

View quoted message But the problem is that we dont have an alternate option. I really thought it wasn't going to be a problem.

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Are you able to return any of the dresses you bought? There is normally return policies with online orders and if store can return. I would return them and say its up to her to buy the one she needs now.

View quoted message Well she's going to pay me back for one of them. I just can't afford to put anymore into this. And neither can she.

I mean the dress is pretty but a little much.. If you've paid for both already do you think she might buy her own?

View quoted message So we (I) bought one in a store that she tried on and later she said she wasn't going to be able to fit into it. So we ordered this one online. It just arrived today and it's too big which is great because it can be taken in. But the thing is I told my girls they needed to pay for their own dresses and now I've paid for two for her and not recieved a cent back. I'm not buying a third.

View quoted message Well the other bridesmaid dresses have a few sparkles but are a much darker grey. And a very different style. I just wanted her to stand out as MOH.

View quoted message Thanks that's what my mom and bridesmaids said.

Did she try it on before hand and you guys were fine with it then? If you ask her to get a new dress I would re-embers her for the current dress. It is a little much considering shes the MOH . I wouldn't be okay with it.

....I think it's too much....

It's not white but it not only has sparkles on hers but it's not a simple style that most BM's wear. I wouldn't say it will take away from you - nothing will on your day, but I wouldn't let my BM's wear something like that.

It is a very pretty dress! I don't think its too over the top, it is very different style from yours, plus yours is beautiful!

You should be good