I actually had this happen at my wedding (vow renewing planning) in all honesty I didn’t really notice until she brought it to my attention. I got a little annoyed afterwards but her reasoning was “I forgot that it was your wedding day.”
A) but with a twist .... Two of our 4 daughters want to wear white my mother wants to wear white and I'm sure other women will too! I honestly don't care because no one's marrying my man on that day I am and his eyes will only be on me so really is shouldn't matter it's about me and him lol
A, i would just roll my eyes. I cant control what people are wearing. I did tell the moms that I would prefer them not in all white or royal blue (as our bridal party is in royal blue)
I think I probably wouldn't care as long as the dress didn't look bridal. Although my FMIL said she was considering wearing a white suit and I think that could look weird in pictures. I wasn't really sure how to respond when she told me that. I don't care if she wears a suit, but why white?
B I would be mad.... why would that even cross someone's mind? I think it's very rude unless it's white with lots of detail like picture shown then I wouldn't mind ... but completely white out of the question.
A for sure. I honestly wasn't thinking and showed my mom a white dress saying she'd look great in it. She looked at me funny and said she guessed she could dye it. It took me a minute to clue in. Lol