Featured June 2022 British Columbia
Guest list stress/vent
I’m mostly writing this for venting/just to talk it out with you all as I feel you all might understand more than friends who aren’t planning a wedding.
So my fiancé and I went to a friends engagement party last night and a week ago we sent out our save the dates, Most of the friends were invited/ got them in the mail however there was a few couples we had to cut. With my large family/ wanting 50 people we went with “who would we invite over to hang with that wasn’t for a party” and those couples unfortunately didn’t make it )about 5 couples in the group of friends )While we were at the event I kept getting glares from two specific people & wasn’t even greeted it was so bad I couldn’t even try to greet them myself ( my fiancé usually is greeted while I’m not . )
so I can only think she’s mad she didn’t get a STD while other friends did?Am I in the wrong for not inviting her/her SO ?
Am I wrong because she invited my fiancé to her wedding but he also asked over two months in advance if I could come as a plus one and was straight up ignored?
Also taking into consideration she has truly never been nice to me ever since I came into the friend group and makes me very uncomfortable to be around.. Is it okay we invite whoever We want without feeling alittle bad because it’s our wedding? I’m feeling the same way about some family that won’t be invited too... I have a 2 1/2 cousins that I would like 1 to come but not the other but don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings..
Thank you all for taking the time to read my little vent it truly means a lot 🥰