Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Danielle
Curious July 2019 Ontario

Friend's Kids at Wedding?

Danielle, on February 19, 2018 at 14:41 Posted in DIY 0 9

I'd love some opinions and ideas. We will definitely be having our immediate nieces/nephews at our wedding (ages 2-15) and will be planning for them to be at the ceremony and dinner. However, I also have a fair number of friends coming from out of town who have kids under 6. Not all have the option of extended family to leave them with for the weekend and I think it would be hard to leave young kids with a stranger in a strange place. I also live in a beach town that is a great spot for a little mini family vacation. We're having an outdoor wedding so we'd have the space and I was thinking of hiring a local daycare to run a small kids tent for the ceremony/dinner/once they're ready to crash - crafts, colouring, cheap food (hot dogs or mac and cheese etc.), and some nap areas etc. - like an onsite camp lol.

Has anyone else done this before and can offer tips or things to cover?

9 Comments

Latest activity by Danielle, on March 6, 2018 at 20:11
  • Danielle
    Curious July 2019 Ontario
    Danielle ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content
    Thanks for the feedback and encouragement! Sorry this definitely didn’t get posted in the group I thought...apparently I am great at falling down the wedding planning rabbit hole further than I think lol. Wedding is still over a year away so I’ll keep people posted or ask for more tips as we get into the gritty details.
    • Reply
  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    That's a great idea! If was available I am sure parents would be very appreciative of it.

    • Reply
  • Ashley
    Frequent user August 2018 British Columbia
    Ashley ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content
    Our wedding will be no kids except for those who are coming from out of town and are family.
    • Reply
  • Jenna
    Curious October 2018 Ontario
    Jenna ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    We have a number of friends and family with little ones 7months to 7 years and we have created special wedding favors with mega blocks, stuffed animals, stickers thing's to keep them busy. Our venue has a few small rooms where we have thought of setting up little beds for them in case they pass out early, we have air pads and pillows and blankets just in case. Typically the parents just want to call it a night but that's why after our wedding reception is over were going back to the hotel and going to gather there and catch up with friends and family.

    • Reply
  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    We didn't do this for our wedding but it is a lovely idea! I think just having stuff to keep them entertained as you said and some food should be fine.

    • Reply
  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina
    Lynnie Online ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    I think that's a great idea!!

    • Reply
  • Peggy
    Super May 2019 Alberta
    Peggy ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    There will likely only be a 5-10 children, total, at my wedding - I've planned to hire a babysitter, and to set up a 'sleeping area' at our reception. We have several small rooms in the hall, beside the main hall, so we'll use one of those.


    This way parents can stay and enjoy the party, the littles can play and dance and then crash!

    • Reply
  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content

    I think it's a great idea to have a kids area! You could probably even have some of the older nieces/nephews watch the younger children (if they are interested in doing that). Since the tent will be nearby, if there are any issues, the parents are right there to come deal with it.

    I would suggest having a variety of activities. Children get bored easily and so having a mix of games, sports, books, colouring, crafts, will be helpful to keep their bodies busy and their minds off the fact that their parents aren't right beside them.

    • Reply
  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
    • Dispute
    • Hide content
    Chances of hiring an actual daycare is unlikely. As an RECE I've never heard of centres doing that. However you can place an ad online looking for 3-5 RECEs(or however many you think you may need) to hire to do that. They will likely bring a lot of their own books and activities, you'd probably just have to provide larger activities and games.
    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

Groups

WeddingWire Article Topics