Friends in Low Places

If they are still married when you send out invitations send one to both of them and let them figure it out. they may get better by then who knows!

That's what I'm thinking - it isn't our place to worry about their marriage, especially at our wedding. We'll let them sort it out.

The honeymoon plans are just me and my FH. It was him suggesting they come along on the boat too, but they both felt weird about it so they declined.

I think just give it some time and wait and see. At the end of the day it will really be their "issue" to sort out, as your friends. You should not have to worry about other people's marriages on your wedding If they are good friends, and they do separate, I imagine they will be adults and figure it out. I hope they can work it out though! I am assuming the honeymoon plans have changed though lol?

I see what you mean! I hope if they are still "together" at the wedding, they'll suck it up and be civil.

My venue is doing a seating chart but im not going to say "this person is going to be here" people can sit wherever their heart desires because they are going to want to get up and socialize ANYWAYS. hopefully you dont get a super last minute issue. just try and keep in contact with both of them as much as possible. chances are regardless of their situation they will just suck it up anyways. depends how ugly the split is

I'm not a fan of open seating, but I have until a week before the wedding to submit it to my venue, who's making the seating chart. As for plus-ones if they are separated, I agree with what you are saying - it adds a whole other layer of drama, especially if one brought one and the other didn't. If I seat them separately, I would put them with like-minded people.

Yeah, this rough patch has gone on for a while now, almost since we got engaged. (we're not the reason I swear lol!) For now, we're gonna treat it like they are fine and wait things out.

Maybe not having a seating arrangement might benefit you. that way if something goes wrong then you dont have to feel the heat between them and they arnt forced to sit together. as for adding plus ones i wouldnt because that can make things much worse.

It seems this couple is having a rough patch or road after their wedding. I know my husband and I did too in the beginning and words were exchanged.

Treat them as the couple they are sending them the invitation as 1. As mentioned about the month before you hear news they split up or go their way, seat them separately which allows less contact. They don't see eye to eye on things.

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking of doing. Unless I hear that they're separating this week, we'll send their invite as normal

Yeah, it would be weird if we sent them separate invitations. They would also have to fly in, unless they take 2 days before and after off to drive. So getting a plus one that late in the game could be a problem since flights are ridiculously expensive after 6 weeks before the flight.

They're both stubborn so I can see them sticking it out for this, but it just sucks acting like things are ok when we both know they are not between them.

I would wait it out and see- Send out the invitation as if it were normal- if they break up , closer to say a month before wedding give options of plus ones and seat elsewhere.