Flower...man?

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That's great! It will definitely make your wedding extra memorable to you and your guests!

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I love this so hard omg. Plzzzz post pics.

UPDATE: we are going to have a flower man, we talked him into wearing a tux instead of a dress and since there is an extra charge to throw flower petals he is going to handout individual flowers to people. He is super excited and we just couldn't pass up the opportunity.

Thank you everyone for showing that this is a twist that people will probably laugh at.

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That is amazing - this is definitely something my FHs friends would do.

And now I kind of want one...

If you aren't opposed to him being your flower man I think it could be really fun and funny! It would add a little twist to things and would really get people to pay attention. If you don't think it would be a good reflection of the relationship you guys have with this person or how you want your wedding to be then maybe just talk to him and see if he is ok with another role.

There is no way this can't get weird, but it would make for such amazing photos lol I'd totally play along with it and go for it!

Because i like to have fun. i would totally have a flower guy. it would fun and something people will remember. and your wedding will also be one of a kind. i love this.

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I love this! Thanks for sharing...maybe I need to find my "flower guy?"

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He can be an usher. Hand people a program (if you're having them) and show people to empty seats.

It really depends on what you guys want and how serious you want the ceremony. I went to a destination wedding last year where one of the bridesmaids had dropped out after her dress was bought, so one of the brides’ brothers friend, who was basically like a brother to the bride, offered to be a bridesmaid and even wore the dress down the aisle. Now of course that’s not for everyone, but this couple was so laid back and fun, and it was a huge hit!

Maybe he could carefully find out IF he's actually serious?
And yea just try to tell him you don't want a flower girl. It's also a lotttt of extra stuff of cleaning up all the little flower petals etc :/ you could always give something like that to blame on not wanting it :')? If he's like oh but I'll clean it! Just tell him you'd rather have him at the party with you guys

If you're worried he will make it too silly or goofy then maybe talk to him about playing a more serious role, and clearly he has a good sense of humour then maybe have him as ring bearer but also stand as a groomsmen? Or get one of your girlfriend's to walk the aisle with him as "honourary" wedding party as ring bearer and flower girl .

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I want one of those

If your too worried about being blunt maybe find a flower girl and inform him that he will be her escorte and then he can still be apart of the movie.

Depends how serious of a day you want! I've seen/heard about this being done.. look at this link:

http://metro.co.uk/2017/06/25/grown-man-is-his-cousins-flower-girl-at-her-wedding-and-completely-bosses-it-6733423/

I think its an awesome idea it's suppose to be a happy day some humor and laughter is a good thing I'd let him do it haha

Honestly, just tell him you thought he was joking and unfortunately don't need/want him as a "flower girl"

If you don't want to be this blunt, perhaps a ring bearer?