Flip Out Or Forget It? - Someone wants to swap their plus one

This happened and I didn't really care lol. It was super easy to forget it.

Forget it! This happened to us. This last-minute stuff is a little frustrating, but it is what it is. As long as the swapped in guest doesn't mind that their name won't be on the seating chart, I don't care!

Forget it. As long as they let me know to change the name for the seating chart Or their guest doesn't mind that their name isn't on the seating chart...

I would forget it. I already know that a couple of my bridesmaids went through break ups and most likely will find new plus ones by then. So I am expecting at least a couple.

In my case I'm not doing assigned seating so who gives a crap. As long as the numbers stay the same it's all good.

Forget it.. this happened to me many times and last minute too after my chart was already printed. I just said I hope they don't mind going by your previous dates name because i'm not changing it. but it made no difference with the number of people so I didn't really care

Forget it! As long as they’re still bringing someone, it doesn’t matter to me!

Forget it!

There wasn't any plus 1 attended since the guests came alone. The guests were invited as per the names indicated on the invitations.

Forget it. I'd be more irritated if someone wanted to add a plus one when they didn't have one before than simply switching people. At least it wouldn't mess with the head count.

Forget it. I rather they switch their plus one and have a good time then be someone wo doesn't have a plus one, think they can bring a plus one. If I already plan for them to bring a plus one anyway its just swapping the name and spots.

If they did it without even a "hey, can I switch so-and-so for so-and-so?"...there would be mild flipping out and unhappy glares at them. We're not doing any unnamed "plus ones", so, first, it would be rude....second, there are a few friends of friends that are, well, for lack of a better term, EPIC drama llamas.

Forget it, at least they are bringing a guest as was stated when they RSVP’d. I would be more upset if they didn’t and I would be out money on a plate.

I don't care who anyone brings as their plus one. So it would be a forget it

This has already happened to me, I'd forget it, I have until a certain date to make changes, and one or 2 isn't a big issue. However, if someone changes something a day or two before the wedding - I'd let them know that I can't change the seating chart/place card so they can bring whoever, but the names won't match.

Forget it, I mean I’m putting every guest’s name personally on the invitations so there are no “plus ones or and guests” but if someone’s SO can’t make it I won’t be mad if they want to sub out for a friend so they aren’t lonely. It doesn’t change numbers.

Forget it, it's not hard to change a label.

Forget it - I mean, the way they ask could be grounds for flipping out (some people have NO self-awareness), but in the end..no biggie.

Forget it! it would make basically no difference, so oh well

This happened recently and I think I handled it well. I’m basically just like whatever. I don’t even care any more 😂

I would not flip out, I would forget it but they wouldn't be allowed to change their plus one? Nope nope nope.

Right now, I would forget it. If it was closer to the wedding and the seating chart has been done I would flip out. And their new date would have to deal with their name not being on the chart!

Forget it- I would tell them no as seating chart is already completed.

Forget it - in the sense that I tell them no and move on. I've had to do this 2 times already!! I am not worried at all, they just can't bring somebody else.