Flip Out Or Forget It? - People asking if they can be invited

When I was posed with this question, I wouldn't let it bother me. I honestly only got a couple of people who assumed they were invited (who weren't), and I never had to confront them.

Forget it! I made very clear from the start that my space was going to be very limited. If I had my way, literally everyone I know would be coming, but my family is huge and they come first. All of my friends have been very understanding of this, and I honestly haven't minded people asking to come or what-have-you.

Forget it. It's awkward, but I feel that people understand if they're not invited. Weddings are expensive.

Don't sweat it. If you can't invite someone and you think they will be offended there is always the excuse of limited space/money.

... forget it. I had this stuff happen all the time, but it was mostly from my grandmother who I know was just very excited.. still annoying tho!

Forget it. I had one person ask and she laughed right away and so I laughed with her.

Intentionally I hadn't invited some of my co workers from the same store I worked for at the time, at a different location. They were shown the invitation thinking she was invited and spontaneously said yes. Towards the time nearing, she declined due to not being able to leave the store. Though it wasn't meant to be, it was still ok for me to say yes no matter what knowing her for a long time.

Probably forget it. It's irritating but not the end of the world.

Forget it. If I have space for them and they want to be there I'll see what I can do, but my numbers are really strict.

Forget it. It's awkward and annoying. At first, I just said we hadn't made the guest list yet (which was the truth) and now I just straight up say the venue only allowed a limited number of people and apologize and directly move to another topic. Shut that sucker down.

Forget it. No point getting annoyed. I'm happy they want to be part of our day

I'd forget it - while it is annoying to be asking if someone is invited, they are probably just excited and want to celebrate on our day!

Forget it. Yes it can be awkward and annoying if they are not actually on your guest list, but it’s somewhat of a compliment for them to want to come to the wedding.

Forget it, I don't think I can get mad or annoyed at someone for wanting to come to the wedding.

Forget it - They are just excited, which is normal.

Forget it! i’ve definitely dealt with this already, and it’s awkward but i just can’t be bothered to deal with it. there is one person who continues to push my buttons (who won’t be invited) who might need to be told eventually, but so far i’ve managed to keep it together

Forget it! This happened a few times and I had to tell them I was only have a very small, intimate wedding and my guest list had to be kept under 30 lol

I would forget it as well. They are just excited but you can only invite so many people.

Forget it. Great that they want to be invited, but no point making it a huge deal. We have the final say in the end

Forget it- I have already had this and dealt with it nicely.

Forget it. They have no say if they are invited and I will not be made to feel guilty if they aren't.