Family in the wedding

You could make your niece a flower girl and your nephew could be a ring bearer or an usher or he could even escort your flower girl.

View quoted message My son and my niece or my niece and nephew?

Could the two of them be ring bearer and flower girl and walk in the procession together?

That’s a good idea. I was hoping my sons would walk me down the aisle they will be 2/11 my daughter is a bm she will be 23 by then. I was thinking maybe have my nephew as ring security but would he be to old for that? Or flower girl security since my niece is his sister and she will be 2

I suppose it depends on which roles you have your kids doing. Maybe some of those can be shared roles (flower girl/ring bearer/junior bridesmaid or groomsmen).

Maybe the 10 year old could be a greeter or usher helping people find their seats or directing people where to go when they arrive?