Engagement - Long or Short?

Long. Two, almost three, years by the time we get married. Moving and selling a house right after getting engaged delayed things a bit, but kind of glad we had some time to enjoy the excitement of being engaged fully before jumping into planning.

My engagement is very long, just short of two and a half years. We're young, we've been together for going on 10 years and we both decided that 2020 sounds right so we're taking our time.

We've already been engaged for just about a year now but it's just flying by! I can't imagine planning everything in just one year

I don't know, we were engaged just under 14 months. It feels short compared to some and long compared to others.

Long. Just about 2 years to the day.

Same here, I thought that was a pretty standard amount of time

I guess a "long" one. We will be married for just over 2 years

I didn't know a 2 year engagement was considered long until I came here lol. So I guess ours is technically long, even though I didn't think it was

Long! 1 week shy of 2 full years lol!

WOW! What a long engagement! You must be so excited that your day is almost here!

Long. It will be a total of 21.5 months by the tie we get married.

11 months... feels really long lol

Long! I always knew I wanted a long engagement, we'll be a bit under two years by the time we get married. Sometimes I feel impatient and wish it was sooner, but most of the time I'm happy I gave us so much time to plan and save money!

Long. We will be engaged for just over two years when we get married.

Long! 29 months total : Engaged in April 2017, married in September 2019.

I think ours is definitely on the shorter side - we will have been engaged for 8 and a half months when we get married. At the beginning it felt like a very long time but now that the day is here, I feel like the engagement was yesterday.

Engagement can go both ways depending on the planning process and couple wanting that time frame for themselves.

For us, it was short 18 months of planning and being engaged unofficial of proposal. The time of moving in together and having putting on rings that were small for him fit me perfect. That was considered our engagement. 3.75 years before getting married then. 18 months beforehand of commitment of actual engagement.

LONG! Almost two years.

LONG!! right now we have been engaged for a year and 4 months but it will be 1 year and 9 months by the day of our wedding.

Short.. we will have been engaged 10 months when we are married.