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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Engagement Announcement - Traditional or Modern?

Lynnie, on April 9, 2018 at 11:10 Posted in Before the wedding 0 27

How did you announce your engagement?

Were you super traditional and sent out an engagement announcement in your local newspaper? Or are you more modern and broke the news on social media?


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Latest activity by Kaisha, on August 1, 2018 at 20:25
  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    Modern. We called all our immediate family and a few friends and then after about a week when we had told everyone we posted in social media.

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  • Jennifer
    Frequent user February 2024 Ontario
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    I haven't told anyone yet. Except all you wonderful ladies here on WW. He did it while we were on vacation and didn't know his brother was proposing to his long time gf while we were away. They've been together so long, have a baby and she's made no secret how badly she wanted this so I didn't want to steal her thunder. Then when I thought the time was right, my cousin announced his engagement to a girl he just met 4 months ago and the wedding would be in a couple months. It may be silly but I want everything to die down first so I can have my moment. Besides the ring doesn't fit at all so I don't even wear it. I will go with modern when the time is right, social media but only after face to face with the important people of course.
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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    Modern. Posted it on fb and instagram. We told our immediate family in person though.

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  • Stacey
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
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    We waited until we got a chance to tell all of our close family & friends first before posting it anywhere online. He posted it on Facebook but I’m more of an Instagram social media kind of gal. We used a photo of my (our) dog. So it was modern for us!
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  • Cynthia
    Curious August 2020 Ontario
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    We told close family members in person (parents,brother, sisters, few friends) then posted on Facebook approx a month later.

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  • April
    Frequent user June 2018 British Columbia
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    I made a post on facebook!

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  • Christine
    Curious July 2020 New Brunswick
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    We are going modern. We are still in the process of telling our families, and then we will post it on Facebook.
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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    I wish I lived in a small town where people actually cared about engagement/wedding announcements Smiley laugh Vancouver is far too big for that...

    Definitely modern. We were with my mom and stepdad, so they got told in person, then we called the rest of our parents and siblings. We gave each other the night to reach out to any friends/family we wanted to tell personally, then the next morning I posted on FB/Instagram. Where my mom promptly shared my post to brag to her friends Smiley xd

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina
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    Modern for me! I shared our engagement news on instagram!

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I guess we were modern. We told a lot of people when we saw them as we got engaged on Christmas day but I also called a lot of people and sent some texted pictures. We also then wrote on social media as we have lots of friends who are far away.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    We posted it on Facebook so it was very modern lol.

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
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    Modern social media: Facebook

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    Definitely modern via social media.

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  • Ashley
    Frequent user October 2021 Manitoba
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    Modern - my fiancé told both of our families before he proposed and we posted to social media.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    We did it by social media, our parents want to put it in the paper once the engagement photo's have been taken

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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Modern - we called our parents and immediate families, but everyone else found out on fb.
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    We told all the people we care about.. which basically is everyone invited to the wedding!

    We did post something on social media after.

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  • Holly
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    Modern. We posted a picture on social media after we told our closest friends and family.
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    We called family and friends, emailed others, and then posted it on Facebook.

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    We went with modern on this one. We called all the people who needed to hear it from us personally, and then we announced it on social media.
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Modern! Just posted on social media AFTER calling our parents

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  • Stephanie
    Frequent user May 2018 Ontario
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    Newspaper is old fashioned but posting it on social media is very modern and kind of expected as well.

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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Modern, both our parents knew it was going to happen since he told them/ asked permission then I messaged my friends right away and posted on social media
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    I personally called my nearest and dearest before I posted to social media!

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  • Valérie
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    Modern; we called our close family/friends, then released a post on social media.

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  • Breanne
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    I guess we did both. We were on a trip overseas in England & Scotland so we called/messaged all our close friends and family and then announced it on facebook a few days later.

    A few months later we did the traditional newspaper announcement (when you're from a town of 8000 people this is something you dream about as a little girl lol) and then sent out save the dates.

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  • Tatiana
    Expert April 2018 Ontario
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    Modern, we just called or straight out sent the Save the date

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