(added in another discussion board) Hello guys! I am kind of lost right now. I keep jumping back and
forth between eloping and having a wedding. At first, my fiance and I
were all for eloping, but once we told his dad (accidentally told him we
may be thinking about eloping) things are changing. He said that it is
possible to do a wedding on a budget and that he may be able to help us
out, so that kind of made us rethink everything. I was hesitant on
having a wedding because I am not much a party planner and I actually
don't like having attention on me (same with my fiance) and I constantly
worry if people are enjoying themselves so I thought eloping would be
perfect for us. BUT at the same time I want to be able to celebrate with
my friends and family. I am torn. So then I start researching places
and things just keep adding up! I am already stressed out and I have
only been engaged for 3 weeks because I feel I need to pick a venue and
date right now in order to actually have something by next year. Ah! I
don't know what to do. All the planning and expectations makes me want
to elope one day but then I go back to wanting to celebrate and have an
nice wedding the next day.
Has anyone felt this way or is it just me?
