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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Doing or Ditching: Sleeping separately the night before the wedding?

Lynnie, on April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Posted in Before the wedding 47

Traditionally, couples spent the night before the wedding sleeping in separate beds as a “last night alone” and so that you don’t wake up and see each other before the ceremony! What are your sleeping arrangements for the night before the big day? Are you doing or ditching the tradition of sleeping...

Traditionally, couples spent the night before the wedding sleeping in separate beds as a “last night alone” and so that you don’t wake up and see each other before the ceremony! What are your sleeping arrangements for the night before the big day?

Are you doing or ditching the tradition of sleeping separately the night before?


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47 Comments

  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
    Kim ·
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    Ditched this one. And it was kind of nice to wake up the morning of the wedding and share a few minutes together saying "we're getting married today!"

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Doing this! I'm staying in the bridal suite with my mom and he's staying with my dad and brother. The first time we see each other will be when I walk down the aisle!

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    Ditching, we have a son and he's a handful for one person if they plan to get any sleep 😂
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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
    Seleena ·
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    Ditching this one! We are spending a lot of money on our bride & groom suite. So definitely going to be taking advantage of that!
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    Doing! Mostly due to logistics, as we always stay at our separate parents' house when we visit...but also because my FH doesn't want to see me until I walk down the aisle.

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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
    Veronica ·
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    For sure doing! Plan on having a slumber party with my bridal party that night.

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  • Allen
    Devoted April 2019 Ontario
    Allen ·
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    I'm staying at my fbil and fsil place
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  • Gina
    Super April 2019 Alberta
    Gina ·
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    I think we are doing. I will likely stay with my parents in their hotel room and he will stay in our hotel room with our kids
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  • K
    Newbie February 2020 Saskatchewan
    Kalie ·
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    Ditching! I’m not mananaging our children alone the night before 😂😂
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    We are keeping this! I thought about ditching it but same time think should keep it.

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  • Jenna
    Frequent user February 2021 Nova Scotia
    Jenna ·
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    We’re skipping. We will be spending the night before together. The day of though we will be apart until our first looking before the ceremony and we walk down together.
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Doing! We live separately at the moment right now anyway and will continue until the wedding.

    can save some money this way!
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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    Were skipping this. We will be spending the night before together but after we get set up at our venue the morning of he wont see me until I walk down the aisle.
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    Doing! And no first look for us either - I want the first time he sees me to be when I walk down the aisle.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    Of course! We will be doing a first look shoot before the ceremony Smiley smile

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