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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Doing or Ditching: Parent Dances?

Lynnie, on April 1, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Wedding reception 0 45

Are you doing the traditional father-daughter and mother-son dances at your wedding reception? Or are you trimming down the total number of reception traditions and cutting the parent dances?

Are you saying "I do" to this tradition or ditching it?


Doing or Ditching: Parent Dances? 1

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45 Comments

Latest activity by Vinod, on April 9, 2019 at 10:07
  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    We did have Mother & Son dance which was nice.

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  • Allen
    Devoted April 2019 Ontario
    Allen ·
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    My father passed 2 years ago, so I'll dance with my ffil and uncle(s)
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  • Terresa
    Curious October 2019 British Columbia
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    Ditching. My parents and his mother have passed. We aren't even having dancing.

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  • Summer
    Devoted May 2019 Ontario
    Summer ·
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    My dad has hip problems so dancing wouldn’t be possible, nor are we close enough to want to do it. So no. We’re skipping this one
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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    We are doing the daddy-daughter and mother-son dance. We actually left the decision up to the parents on this one because we figured no sense in forcing someone to do a tradition if they didn't want to! My FH's mother isn't a super spotlight person, but she surprised us by saying she wanted to. My dad was excited at the idea.

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  • Yarril
    Newbie November 2021 Ontario
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    Doing! But I am mulling over possibly singing to my dad some parts of the song for our Father Daughter dance. My FH will dance with his mom.
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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    Ditching, kind of. We still danced with our parents but didn't make it a show.

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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
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    We're not having dancing, so its a ditch

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  • Amanda
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Amanda ·
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    No dances.. We might do them but we won't announce them. We want everyone to dance.

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    We are doing these - except it will be him & his mom, and me & my mom.

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  • Maegan
    Frequent user August 2021 Ontario
    Maegan ·
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    Doing this one! Although my dad and I have also talked about performing a song instead as I play the fiddle and he plays the banjo (among many other things)
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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    Doing! They're cute and I already have a song in mind.

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    We’ll definitely be doing!
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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
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    Doing, i am looking forward to that moment with my dad.
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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    Ditching it! I’m one of the last of my pals to get married and I didn’t want to force anybody to wear anything just for photos. My crew knows I love them and I know they’ll be there for me. It’s enough to know that they’ll be there.
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  • Lydia
    Devoted June 2019 British Columbia
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    Ditching, we're not dancing at all (day wedding and my FH doesn't feel comfortable about it)
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    Doing! My MIL deff wants to do one and my dad has something great planned!

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  • Monica
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
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    I think we’re leaning towards on doing this. Love your ideas of combining the dance together!! Going to pitch this idea to my FH and see what he says!
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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
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    We are going to keep this, as its very important to my dad, and my FH does not see his family often since they live so far away so I wanted to incorporate it for them

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Doing. I love these dances. Both our parents have done this, and I want to keep that tradition going

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  • Michelle
    Expert April 2019 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    Doing, did not want to originally but we were kind of guilted into it haha

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  • Jenn
    Frequent user April 2019 Saskatchewan
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    Ditching! We are ditching the entire dance, actually. It'll be a morning service, with everything all wrapped up by 4:00pm. Smiley smile
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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    We'll be doing this tradition. FH doesn't like the spotlight but I know his mom really wants that special moment.

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  • Meghan
    Devoted April 2019 Ontario
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    We are doing the father daughter dance but not the mother son
    FH isn't too fond of dancing, actually both of us are nervous about it, but my Dad is SO looking forward to doing it, so I will do it for him

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    We did this. It was a last minute decision! We chose the song during dinner!
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  • Alix
    Expert June 2021 Saskatchewan
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    We're doing this one!

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  • Kassandra
    Frequent user May 2020 Alberta
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    Ditching this one
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    We're doing it. I know it will make our parents happy, so we're doing it.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Ditching, my FH's mom isn't around and my dad isn't much of a dancer. We're having a wedding party dance after our first dance, where the wedding party can dance with their spouse (or each other). My parents can also join in and my FH's dad can dance with his girlfriend. After that, everyone can get on the dancefloor.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    We are. My FH wasn't going to but his mom got upset about that so he said they can do one.
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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
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    I don't think I'll be doing these. I hate dancing and especially when people are watching me lol
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  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
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    We had a small daytime wedding/reception so we didn't do the big dance party afterwards. If we *did* do dancing, we probably would have done a combined mother/son and father/daughter dance.

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