Does your FH know how many guests you'll have?

No way! I trust her judgement, her vote is arguably the most important vote (...just as long as no one trys to take her ball they're cool )

I'm sure you've noticed, she is a bit fickle. I don't think she would be a reliable vote!

HAHA oh fine with your logic! I like it better when the dog was the deciding vote

A few of the friends came down to "have they met the dog? " IE- have we seen then in the last year?

We;; that makes it easy... mine is more of an uphill battle. But I think he's coming around now that the list needs to be locked in soon!

1bark for yes, slobber on the list for no?

He knows how many guests are on the list. My answer is C.

He's definitely involved with the guest list, when I can get him to sit with me and talk about it. He is shy and nervous on front of lots of people so he wants icst as small as he can get it, while not wanting to exclude people. It's pretty tricky.

We were both really involved in the guest list. Having 2 big families, and a pretty large friend group it was a bit tricky to balance, so we had a panel discussion about a lot of them. (we were the panel. the dog was the tie breaker)

Haha we had to have a few of those conversations as well. "If you haven't spoken to them in the entire time that we've been together, I don't think you need to invite them." Luckily he agreed!

C! We worked on the guest list extensively together and kept track of all the RSVPs together.

He knows the exact amount...or at least as exact as I do

He knows the range, 40-50 when we just lowered it to 40!

He knows the exact amount comming as long as they all rsvp lol

He knows the exact amount coming!

It's mostly his family so he knows them better than me! But he's well aware of the numbers (because I'm trying to keep the list small and I'm always asking who he doesn't really talk to to cut the list down)