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Lynnie
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Do you have nights for “no wedding talk”?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 26
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Sometimes the most important part of wedding planning is taking a break from wedding planning! Do you have nights where you ban the wedding talk? Never, always, or sometimes?


Do you have nights for “no wedding talk”? 1

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Latest activity by BunnyBride, on September 24, 2019 at 15:24
  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2022 Nova Scotia
    BunnyBride ·
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    Sometimes? We don't exact plan a "no wedding talk" day, but we don't talk about wedding related things everyday either. I imagine this might change when we are only a few weeks out versus a little under a year. Smiley xd

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Sometimes... a lot. All done now, but we would go many, many nights without wedding talk. I planned a lot of it, so if there was nothing new, there was nothing to say really.

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    We did since I had to get some of his views and thoughts. He didn't like it until favours were being looked into and wedding bands came into talk. Financial is not his best topic or to talk about though it does hit you hard not knowing things happen or payments bounce.

    Sometimes, he does look at the wedding shows on TV and admits our wedding was nice and just perfect without a second thought. That makes me happy to know he looks back and says it.

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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    We've taken the ultra marathon approach to planning so not really. We have nights where we just don't plan because we don't need to more so than anything.

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    We haven't needed to do this yet, although I suspect it'll come up as we get closer!

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  • Monica
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
    Monica ·
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    Never! We talk about the wedding whenever, as it’s fast approaching and a topic we need to discuss! There’s so much to do
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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    Never. It's a big part of our lives right now, so we talk about it when we need to.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Nope lol. I'm usually the one who brings it up, but we talk about the wedding whenever we want to. It's less than 6 months away so it has to be discussed!

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    At first we didn't talk about wedding on our date nights. We are now 40 days out so we are past that a bit.

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  • Summer
    Devoted May 2019 Ontario
    Summer ·
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    Not anything specific. We talk about it when it comes up or we need to plan or figure something out
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    Not really, there’s no specific nights. We don’t talk about it all the time anyway so there’s no need.
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    Not specifically? There are some nights when wedding talk for sure doesn't happen or doesn't happen a lot aside from a quite note or something!

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    Never. We don't feel it's necessary since wedding planning hasn't consumed our life. It's refreshing to talk wedding since we are so busy being new parents.
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Casey ·
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    We just talk about it when something comes up or needs to be done. Once we get closer maybe, but not right now

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    We’re married now but when we were planning we were intentional to have no wedding talk dates
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Never - it's quite the opposite with us. We usually don't talk about wedding planning unless something needs to be picked out/contracts signed etc.

    When we get closer to the wedding, we'll probably start banning wedding talk just to have some sanity lol

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    Not really.
    It's quite the opposite : We plan wedding planning dates.

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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    Nope... we discuss it whenever something comes up that needs discussion
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    No, it really. It doesn’t get discussed much aside from whatever it is that we are focussed on.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    We don't overly talk about it that much that there needs to be a no wedding talk night!

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    We really don’t talk about the wedding that much! we’re 16 months away from the wedding, and in the past 9 months that we’ve been engaged, i’ve done 99% of the wedding planning, so we don’t have much to discuss at this point haha
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    Sometimes. For the most part we have things figured out so we don't talk about it much, but when we do there has been a time or two where we just decide "not tonight!" and watch a movie or something else instead of getting into the planning.

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  • Amelia
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    We don't actively ban wedding talk any day or night - it just comes up when it comes up.

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
    Leah ·
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    Always.
    We have set meetings for “pay attention” wedding convos, and we reserve the right to bring up discussions on an ad hoc basis.

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    We don't ban wedding talk for any nights, but there are definitely nights that we don't talk about it

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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
    Rachael ·
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    Definitely. It's not something we actively talk about every single day.
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