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Do you go to sleep angry at each other?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 26

Do you have those nights where you just can’t let it go and fall asleep without resolving a fight? Or do you always kiss and make-up before going to bed?

Do you never, always, or sometimes go to sleep angry at each other?

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Latest activity by Brittany, on February 13, 2019 at 13:24
  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Rarely. Usually we try to settle and arguments or fights before bed, but sometimes it's just not going to get resolved, he needs to sleep it off. Then we wake up in the morning and apologize/cuddle.

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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya ·
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    Nope! we always take time to discuss whatever it is before we go to sleep. now we might not be super happy clappy with each other but at least we have talked through the problem and can move forward. we rarely fight so this is nice haha

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  • Mary
    Curious October 2019 Ontario
    Mary ·
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    My fiancé can not go to sleep until we talk everything out. At the beginning of the relationship it was hard but now it's one of my favourite habits of his !

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Never. Its not a good feeling and making up is the best part after it.

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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    We try not to. Usually its in bed that we have our talk-it-out moment.

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Sometimes. Tyler hates to, but sometimes I just need that cooling off period before I'm ready to talk about it. We usually try to avoid it, though!

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  • Monica
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
    Monica ·
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    Try to kiss and makeup before going to bed. It’s difficult trying to sleep when you’re mad at each other!! Lol
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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    We rarely fight or even argue, but when we do, we make sure to resolve it immediately. Both of us have parents who fought pretty savagely when we were younger, so that's something we try to avoid in our own relationship.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    We try not to. Lately we've been getting better at it, but when we were younger it was very difficult to resolve every argument before we went to bed.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    We had a "fight" yesterday and we made sure to talk it out before bed. Neither of us sleeps as good if we are angry.

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  • Summer
    Devoted May 2019 Ontario
    Summer ·
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    That is rare! We don’t fight or get mad at each other often. He can never stay mad either so I’d say no
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    Never, I just can’t do it. He’ll often get up before me so I don’t know when I’ll see him.
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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    Very rarely. We don't tend to be mad at each other for long.
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Sometimes. I feel like space is always a positive thing. I need lots of space sometimes and he respects that.
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Casey ·
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    Very rare. We try not to. But there are those times where I just need to separate myself, and then end up falling asleep

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    It’s rare. We try to come to an agreement before bed but there have been times we thought it best to sleep on it. But, I wouldn’t say either of us were angry, we just weren’t in agreement if that makes sense!
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Rarely, sometimes he's had a rough shift at work (law enforcement) so when he's home he's not in the best mood but makes an effort to not direct any negativity at me. I'm a sensitive person who cries when someone's voice is slightly raised and he knows it. Even when his day has been complete S***, if I'm in a bad mood, he tries to make be feel better before passing out. Sometimes it doesn't work and we go to bed in bad moods - we fix the problem ASAP in the morning.

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    I mean, stuff happens, even when you try to talk it out.

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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    Not very often. We try to resolve whatever the issue is before bed
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    We never go to bed angry, this was something I have always followed as such a good piece of advice

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    Never when we’re angry with each other. We make a huge effort to communicate and talk through whatever’s bothering us
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    NEVER!!!!!! One of the reasons we kiss goodnight!

    Don't go to bed or leave the house upset, you don't know if that is the last time you will see them or talk to them. Every day you wake up is a blessing!

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  • Amelia
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    Sometimes. He's a big advocate of not going to bed angry but I'm more cranky and unreasonable when I'm tired and tend to sleep off whatever it is that's ticked me off.

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
    Leah ·
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    And for added measure we’re doing pre-marital counselling to help lay a foundation for marriage/relationship success.
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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    Never, for me it's pretty obvious when something is bothering me and I like to talk things out instead of letting them stew and my fiance is so easy going that things rarely ever bother him.

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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
    Rachael ·
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    I'd say never or almost never. If something's bothering us (or one of us), it's usually obvious to the other and we resolve it beforehand.

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