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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 32
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You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?


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Latest activity by Sarah, on March 10, 2019 at 20:39
  • Allen
    Devoted April 2019 Ontario
    Allen ·
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    No, he may ask to use mine and sometimes I'll use his. Full honesty here
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  • Lydia
    Devoted June 2019 British Columbia
    Lydia ·
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    No, we do know each others passcodes and fingerprints are on the phones but it doesn't go any further then maybe one of us asking to look something up and the other phone is closer or either one of us calling out to the other if we receive a message we've been waiting on and maybe reading that out if the other one asks for it. I have no reason or need to creep to his phone, and I myself have nothing to hide either
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  • Sarah
    Expert August 2021 British Columbia
    Sarah ·
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    We know each other’s codes but don’t snoop because we trust each other.
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  • Jenna
    Frequent user February 2021 Nova Scotia
    Jenna ·
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    Never. We both have one another’s passcodes and thumb prints in each other’s phones. She would show me anything I wanted to see and vice versa so no need to snoop..
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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Never, I don't think he even knows what snapchat is lol

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Never. Not because I trust him or don't trust him... I literally don't care. Haha. We both know the codes to each other's phones... but there's nothing secret going on there at all.

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  • H
    Curious October 2020 Ontario
    Hayley ·
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    Unfortunately a lot, for me it's not cuz I don't trust him, I have just always been a nosy person, don't know why it's just how I am. I even do it with my moms phone too so it's not just him. Sometimes I also do It if i know he is planning something because i hate not knowing things lol. But he can go through mine and I can go through his no problem cuz we trust each other and have nothing to hide
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  • Katrin
    Frequent user September 2019 Ontario
    Katrin ·
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    Never. I trust her.

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  • Shla
    Devoted October 2021 Ontario
    Shla ·
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    Never. But we use each others phones all the time. While I'm doing something I get him to check my email if I get one, he reads me my texts and types my answer for me and vice versa. I love that.
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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    Never. I don't worry about anything happening cause she's a terrible liar anyway Smiley xd

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Never. We both trust each other completely. I have never felt the need to dig through his phone for any reason. We use each others' phones all the time.

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    Never! He has no social media accounts and barely texts. Even if he did, I don't think I would want to invade his privacy like that.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Sometimes lol. We have nothing to hide from each other, therefore it doesn't matter lol.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    I wouldn't say creep, we use each others phones all the time. Neither of us mind as we have nothing to hide.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    Secretly? No. Just I go through his phone, not looking for anything.. usually on his Facebook, Instagram or snapchat. See what's on his social media that's different to mine lol he does the same with my phone. But I won't go through emails and stuff like that because it's unnecessary, unless the asks me to for whatever reason. We have nothing to hide so our phones are open to each other whenever. If he wants to read my texts or messages for whenever reason he's welcome to lol
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  • Summer
    Devoted May 2019 Ontario
    Summer ·
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    No. He has nothing to hide and is usually playing games more than texting or messaging anyway so 🤷🏽‍♀️
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  • Olivia
    Beginner July 2019 Ontario
    Olivia ·
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    Never. If you feel the need to secretly snoop, it’s not a healthy relationship.
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    Never, I don’t really need to creep. I pick it up to do things but I don’t need to creep.
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    Never! Unless I ask to use it for something specific like to google something! If you're worried about something with your partner and you have to creep through their phone to try and check up on them there's something seriously wrong. Just talk to them! In reverse though he can go through my phone any time if he ever wants to! Nothing exciting on there that he hasn't seen haha!

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Never. I trust him and to be honest, his phone is boring lmao lots of soccer and golf games 😂
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Casey ·
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    Rarely. I mainly just go through his pictures because sometimes hes got his phone out when I don't and he has pictures I want. I also help him add pictures to his Instagram lol.

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    I did once. I was trying to find the phone number of a couple buddies of his to see about a surprise party for him. But, my husband rarely saves people in his phone so I had to go through some of his texts to find them!
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Never! I trust him and vice versa so there's no point in snooping. There have been times I've been peeved at my FH about something trivial and ranted to a friend so I wouldn't want him poking around for reasons like that. He probably does the same, and I don't care enough to go through it.

    I had an ex who'd, every time my phone went off and I grabbed it, look over my shoulder to see what was up. It seemed like a trust violation to me (he did have some major trust issues) so I'd never do that do another human being

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    Never!
    We're always on each others phones anyway: If his is closer to me, when I need to quickly look something up, I'll grab it. He does the same thing! So there isn't a reason to snoop!

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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    No I don't snoop... but he wouldn't care if I did. Neither of us has anything to hide.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    I mean snoop? Never! But answer his texts for him or pick up his phone when there is a call? ya... for sure do that. The only time we weren't letting each other look on our phones was during Christmas time when we could have had texts about gifts or browsers open with gift info.

    Shouldn't have to snoop, but shouldn't be told you can't.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    The only snooping i’ve ever done is to read messages from his mom after she’d started a huge fight with us. However, i did it right in front of him, so i’m not sure it counts haha
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  • Amelia
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    Never. It's not my business.

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
    Leah ·
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    Rarely.
    Though he just got a new phone and I’m jealous so I’ve been nosy...but not on his personal apps just the fun ones (and camera!)
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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    Not on purpose. Sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of a message or something when grabbing him his phone or when he's sitting beside me but that's it.

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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    Not really, I don't see point in it. Sometimes if he has question about something or says i didn't text him telling him something I will show and prove lol but he doesn't really use his phone. People tend to call me first because they know he won't answer or doesn't have on him.

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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
    Rachael ·
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    Not on purpose, though if I get his phone for him or unplug it when it's done charging and an app is open I won't pretend I don't get curious sometimes! (90% of the time it's a game that does not appeal to me though, LOL).

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