Hello everyone, I need some advice, I am stuck between a rock and a hard place with deciding my maid of honor.. I have 2 really close friends I have known them both for 10 years or a little longer. The one has been by my side for alot of things, she has watched my kids grow up. Financially she's not able to help alot with the duties of being a maid of honor. She's not married and doesn't plan on being married even though she's been with her man for 18 years.
I went to school with the other friend to become a psw, that's how we met! We have stayed in contact over the years, she's also not exactly Financially stable to help with many duties, she's been married once. The minute she found out I was engaged she kinda sprung herself on to be by my side, which is fine bit I'm not sure she's maid of honor material, we are supposed to go look at wedding dresses tomorrow and at 7 am this morning she said she wasn't sure if she would male it as she doesn't think she has enough gas. Ok far enough but in the back of my head I'm trying to figure out if this is the beginning of her excuses and if I should just choose my other friend..
Any advice would be great 🙂