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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Clinking for Kisses? Keep or Cancel?

Lynnie, on September 16, 2019 at 09:50 Posted in Wedding reception 0 29

Clink Clink!! 馃 It's time to smooch again, as demanded by your guests! Are you saying keep to this tradition because you'll take any opportunity to lay another kiss on your new spouse's lips? 馃槝 Or do you want to cancel the incessant kissing-on-command clinking demands?

Would you keep or cancel clinking for kisses?


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29 Comments

Latest activity by Amelia, on October 31, 2019 at 22:22
  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
    Amelia
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    I don't mind this tradition. I prefer clinking to making my guests perform silly songs or answer trivia.
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  • R
    Frequent user November 2021 Ontario
    Racheal
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    Cancel. Personally find it awkward and tacky!

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  • Judice
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
    Judice
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    Cancel - Unpopular opinion here but I hate the sound of clinking glasses, and we're not dogs that we do PDA at the sound of the glass.

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  • Nelly
    Devoted October 2021 Ontario
    Nelly
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    We are having kissing bells instead

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  • Christine
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
    Christine
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    I haven't thought of this yet. Might keep it.

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
    Erin
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    Cancel...kinda? We are not allowed to have clinking at our venue, so we came up with something else: We got a big foam die and people have to come up and roll it. If it's even, we kiss, but if it's odd, the person who rolled it has to kiss someone!
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    We cancelled this. We were fine with nothing but our MC announced if they wanted us to kiss, they would have to come show us and we would imitate it. Only one couple (my parents!) did it
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  • R
    Devoted November 2019 Quebec
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    Cancel. We will have a giant dice, when rolled the number it lands on is a different task. Ex: 6= couples kiss 4= person sings a song acapella 1= i think is they have to kiss someone. Fun things like that.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Cancel. We didn't do it for a variety of reasons (one being our venue not allowing clinking of anything lol). Our tables just had to stand up and clap for us to kiss.

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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia
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    Cancel. The constant clinking would drive me insane.

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra
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    Cancel!!! I can't deal with people clinking glasses all night so we're not doing that

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  • Danielle
    Frequent user July 2022 Manitoba
    Danielle
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    Cancel! I can imagine our MOH and BM (her husband) getting tipsy and clinking every 2 seconds haha.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea
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    I haven鈥檛 even thought about this, so who knows!
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  • A
    Devoted July 2023 British Columbia
    Amanda
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    Cancel!!! I hate the clinking of glasses I was very happy when venues put a stop to this tradition. Also I am not one for the big display of PDA it makes me feel awkward having people watch me kiss. I keep trying to convince my fianc茅 that at the ceremony we can do our first kiss as husband and wife after we walk back down the aisle. Everyone will be too busy trying to leave their seats to go to cocktail hour that it won鈥檛 be all eyes on us! 馃槅


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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    For the clinking specifically, Cancel. my FH and I definitely want to have some sort of make them kiss game, but it's not going to be anything super noisy or annoying. We are thinking of getting a giant D20 and have people roll for it or what they would have to do to get us to kiss.

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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
    Seleena
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    Cancel-I think most venues don't even allow this anymore.

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  • Val茅rie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    Cancelled.
    Our venue didn't allow clinking of glasses, which we were very happy about. So instead, we had a putting green set up in front of the head table. Guests had to drain a putt for us to kiss. It was really fun to see everyone have a go at it.

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    Keep, I don't see our crowd as being big clinkers though

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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    Cancel! I hated this at my cousin's wedding they wouldn't leave the poor bride and groom alone to just eat their dinner. Even other guests were getting frustrated.
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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya
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    Keep Smiley smile I love this tradition! my husband didn't really like this but he knew how happy it would make me so we kept it

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Cancel! End of discussion!

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  • Michelle
    Expert October 2021 Nova Scotia
    Michelle
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    Cancel. I'm going to be kissing him all night anyway, no need for our guests to do anything to get us to haha

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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    CANCEL CANCEL CANCEL. hate this tradition with a passion.

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Cancelling. Our venue does not allow any clinking of the glasses!

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  • Alix
    Expert June 2021 Saskatchewan
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    We're not going to have glass cups at our wedding either. So I guess if they want to try clinking plastic cups we can kiss haha

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  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
    Kim
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    We kept this one - we had a small wedding and our families were quite respectful not to over do it.

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie
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    Cancel - oh my gosh, I hate the clinking.
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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
    Rayanne
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    Our venue doesn't allow even if they did I would lie and say they don't lol
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Cancel - we won't even have glass cups at our wedding! Would scare me about the cups breaking anyway.

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