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Katnner
Frequent user August 2018 Alberta

Clashing wedding shoes?

Katnner, on April 12, 2017 at 12:35 Posted in Wedding fashion 0 18

I got a pair of shoes that I love, it fits our sublte nerd theme wonderfully. My mother however thinks that the shoes will look terrible with the dress because of their colours. Thoughts?

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Latest activity by Zoë, on April 13, 2017 at 03:46
  • Zoë
    Master June 2020 Ontario
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    Hi Katnner!! Smiley heart

    I love the shoes!! Maybe you can take a picture together with your dress. I want to see it!

    Did you do this test? Let's see what bride you are.

    Test: Comfortable vs elegant bride

    Let me know!! Smiley love

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  • Maegan
    Super July 2018 British Columbia
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    I adore these shoes... and think they won't clash, but will add character!

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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    I hope so too. Perhaps when she see's them in person it will change her mind.

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  • Ashley
    Beginner August 2017 Ontario
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    I completely understand that! Im so overly honest with my mom if she says something I don't like or tries to dispute something I do want. I tend to give a "wtf are you serious look" lol in a nice way and then say ya no this is what's happening cause it's me, and what you want is you, which is fine for your choices in what you want to wear. It's not like you are trying to make her wear those shoes. She loves you, when she sees you in person and how happy they make you and how excited you get looking at them and putting them on. It will hopefully click Smiley smile
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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    Smiley smile
    That is one way to look at it. It's hard cause she is very traditional, so its hard for her to know my plans to insert nerdy things into the wedding.

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  • Ashley
    Beginner August 2017 Ontario
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    It's understandable that your mothers approval means a lot. I have had some disagreements with my mom but at the end of the day I tell her this is my wedding and not hers, she already got to do what she wanted for hers so I will do what I want for mine especially in terms of what I wear. At the end of the day she will love everything about you from head to toe on the big day. They are your feet, she will understand if that is what makes you happy Smiley smile
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  • Rekramer
    Expert November 2018 Ontario
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    Those are super cute and neutral so they'll go with anything. Don't worry, if you like them, wear them.
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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    Such a cute pair of shoes! I would say that you should totally wear them and if your dress is long no one will know but it will make you happy!
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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
    Katnner ·
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    I was hoping it wouldn't come to that but it would be a fair comprimise. But she hasn't seen them in person yet, just pictures. I am hoping when she sees them she'll change her mind.

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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    Will for sure let you all know.

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  • Loni
    Devoted September 2018 Ontario
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    These are so cute! If you want to meet her half way, maybe you could wear different shoes for the ceremony, then change into these at the reception?

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted September 2019 Quebec
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    I can totally understand. My moms the oposite. she has her own life and stuff so she doesnt even put herself in the planning or anything ahah. I kinda have to get to her talk about it! too lade back in my taste! Maybe you two can make a compremise like have these during the reception and another shoe during the ceremony? You do want to be comfortable during the reception for sure!! I wouldnt put these in the closet just yet!! Let us know if she changes her mind Smiley winking

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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    The dress will be long. I know she doesn't like the whole 'nerdy' thing in our wedding. Its just frustrating cause her approval means a lot, but some things I wont budge on.

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted September 2019 Quebec
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    I agree with Katherine, these will go with anything!!! its your wedding! are you wearing a long dress, tea length or short? You can just tell her you wont be it anyways!! You want to feel comfy on your wedding day! Mine will barely have a heel and are shoes I willwear in the future aswell!

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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    Etsy. https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/Siegda?ref=search_shop_redirect

    Many different nerdy awesome choices, very hard to choose haha.

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  • Katherine
    Super September 2017 New Brunswick
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    Its not like they are the orignal WW colors... They are very cool shoes and very subtle... Do you mind me asking where you got them?
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  • Katnner
    Frequent user August 2018 Alberta
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    Thanks, that's one of the reason I got them. I thought they would too, but you know those stupid nagging doubts about little things.

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  • Katherine
    Super September 2017 New Brunswick
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    Love the wonder woman shoes... I think they would go with anything... Plus you would wear them again.
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