When I first got engaged in March of this year, I knew I wanted to do it in spring. So instantly we were able to decide on May 20, 2023, enough time for us to save and go through things slowly but surely.
I was extremely happy with this date and then my fiancé left for 6 weeks (he is in the military and goes away every few months for training), I was starting to plan and looking at vendors, sending them to him and we were both happy.
QUEUE work issues. When he came home we found out that we can not book time off during training periods - which so happens to be every year in April - May and the beginning of June and mid September to mid October.
So it went from May 20, 2023 to March 18, 2023 - I am going to be honest, I hate that date. Something about late winter/early spring in Alberta that is just such an ugly month that I can not come to terms of getting married then. Its so grey and dark in Edmonton - it is not appealing at all. Even though the wedding is indoors, I know I still want to go outside to take photos but I would not be able to take photos because I don't like the way it looks.
Now we have decided December 10, 2022 as our date and not gonna lie, I am super happy. But I have to go through everything I have previously saved to delete it ALL.
I guess this is more of a rant, I am just not having a good time and I feel like picking a date is probably one of the easiest thing to do. BUT BOY WAS I WRONG!
Anyone else have or have had these issues?
