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Kate
Featured August 2022 Ontario

Celebration of Love

Kate, on June 6, 2022 at 11:54 Posted in Plan a wedding 1 14

Hi everyone!


Quick question...my boyfriend and I are hosting a "Celebration of Love" dinner party. We've sent out invitations, have a venue, have a caterer, live band, and even hired a magician : ) I've ordered centerpieces, party favours, etc. (which the planning process because of the smaller guest count has been such fun and I have enjoyed it so much); basically it will feel like a reception party. He has been married before and myself, I just do not want the pressure of a big, large wedding with a traditional ceremony, etc. - it just does not feel like me. We both do not want to have a ceremony or legally marry but want to throw a party to acknowledge our love (we have been together for 6 years) and share with those closest to us - basically just have some great food, lots of drinks, and dance the night away. Is this odd? How would you feel attending something like this? We have a small guest count, 25 people, and I've been able to communicate this with everyone so everyone seems to just be happy for us which is nice but I think people are still a little confused if they can call this a "wedding" or not. This is exactly how we want to do things so trying to stay true to ourselves and not listen too much to outside opinions but I am just curious if this seems weird or not? lol Appreciate feedback and kind words : )


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Latest activity by Kate, on July 12, 2022 at 15:06
  • Kate
    Featured August 2022 Ontario
    Kate ·
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    Thank you for the kind words!

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Common law love is something to celebrate whether or not you get married legally. Big or small, your guest list is what you decide and for the right reasons.
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  • Rebecca
    Expert October 2023 Newfoundland and Labrador
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    Smiley heart Smiley heart

    nothing but love on here Smiley heart

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  • Kate
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    Thank you!! I feel so supported now and am totally not worrying about this going ahead : )

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  • Rebecca
    Expert October 2023 Newfoundland and Labrador
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    This sounds beautiful. in a technical sense you are his wife because you are common law and at a later time if you wish to have a private wedding in Vegas or in your living room then i think that's still beautiful.

    huge weddings are soooooo much of a burden (hello to my 250nperson guest list....)

    your celebration of love heck call it whatever you want because its just as valid Smiley heart

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    This is a great community and don't worry what others think, when two people love each other and want to celebrate and share it with loved ones to me that makes it legal in your eyes and your heart. We are 2022 and everything goes these days, Celebration of love, commitment ceremony it all goes.

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  • Kate
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    You're totally right. Thank you!! Smiley smile Means a lot

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  • Kate
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    Thank you! You're absolutely right. I feel like just in todays culture if it's not traditional than it maybe doesn't count but I think we are slowly moving away from this thinking!

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  • Kate
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    That sounds lovely! Thank you for sharing and the reminder - what a nice community this is!

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  • Kate
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    Thank you for the reminder and the kind words : )

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  • Malyssa
    Expert October 2022 Alberta
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    This is a wonderful idea! Whether you are getting "legally" married or not, you can absolutely still call it a "wedding". I even know those who do get legally married before they have their celebration, so really, whatever makes your heart happy, do it!

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  • Amanda
    Featured August 2022 British Columbia
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    I think this is a lovely idea. Even if your guests don't completely understand the meaning, just remember this is for you and your fiance.
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    Hi Beth,

    That all sounds amazing, my father had the same thing after two failed marriages and it was the most beautiful thing I ever attended. Years later my good friend did the same as well and it was a night to remember, I was single back then and said to myself how perfect this night was for them and for my future self.

    Doesn't matter what you do officially or unofficially, it's a bond between two people who love each other and want to celebrate it with loved ones.

    If you are extending the invitation to us I would be more than happy to attend Smiley laugh

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  • KELLY
    Super October 2023 Ontario
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    Good morning Beth!

    I think it's a great idea! If there is one thing I have learned from this website is you do you!

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