Have you ever been part of a bridal party where you're doing what you can to support the couple's vision of their day only to have the parents come and demand something different?
Both my fiancee and I have been part of bridal parties where there were creative differences between the couple and the parents. We would work to the couple's specifications but the parents would take it upon themselves to go 180 on the plan. Sometimes they were small things that was easy to brush off or if changed, wouldn't bother the couple. But sometimes, it could be something huge, like certain religious traditions, seating charts, etc. You don't want to burden the couple on their big day but you also don't want to let the parents get away with fundamentally changing the vibe that was designed by the couple. What do you do?
Now if you were the couple in this situation and you knew what was going on, how would you handle it? Would you want your bridal party to tell you or would you want to be blissfully ignorant of the drama until after it's said and done?