I really need to rant about this because just thinking about it and keeping it to myself (and my fiance) isn't helping!
One of my bridesmaids has been giving me trouble for months now. I've mentioned a few times in comments and posts about how she helped all the bridesmaids get their dresses as she works for a bridal shop, that was great for the most part. She gave the MOH a bunch of issues with the dress.. MOH made her dress pick and the bridesmaids gave her the total and MOH made her payment.. 2 weeks later.. AFTER she told me she submitted the order she tells me MOH has to pick a new dress because it's discontinued. So I tell MOH and all her picks the bridesmaid says to me how ugly her picks are and asks if she can pick her dress... Obviously I said no and eventually MOH picked a dress and the order actually went through. Now the dresses have arrived MOH paid her balance and bridesmaid said she would mail the dress to her (MOH lives 8 hours away). Once again it's been 2 weeks and she still hasn't sent the dress and the wedding is in a month. She even told me she did mail it but in our group chat when I told the MOH it should arrive soon she quickly changed it to "I'll be mailing it tomorrow". Now the bridesmaid isn't even answering me when I ask if she has sent it yet. Unfortunately there is more!!
I told the whole wedding party months ago that the rehearsal is set for 6pm the night before the wedding, she agreed and she said it's good because she has a hotel for the night before. So a few weeks ago she mentions how she can't go to my bachelorette because she has a few meetings in London that day and the next morning, again reassures me she will be at the rehearsal which is the day after my bachelorette. She also has my bachelorette date for months and said she booked it off. So yesterday she tells me she won't be at the rehearsal now either because she is going to be in New York.. she said she will try to be there but her flight lands at 4 so she's not sure. So now I have all these different excuses to why she can't be at these two things and idk what's true and what's not. I have caught her in several lies, she has messed me around with everything I've asked of her and she's not participating in anything.. I don't even know why she is a bridesmaid. I don't even know if I want her at the wedding anymore. I am so frustrated with her and it's adding so much unnecessary stress.
I know that's a lot of complaining but I had to..I'm at my breaking point and needed to let it out!