Bridesmaid gone.. one month to go.

Hmmm it is confusing that all this would come about so close to your wedding. Do you think this is a bit of stick it to you for the whole changing date/colour thing? Weird that your Aunt would go along with it but take it in stride and move. At the end of the day how much does it change your day? Are you looking to replace her?

That was my first thought! Like, ya it's crazy for a cousin to choose a vacation over a wedding - but the Aunt planning it makes it just insane to me!

I guess even though it's so close to the wedding date and they are family, now you know what their priorities are?

That is so bizarre! What a crazy thing for your aunt to do.

I would be upset too, I find it extremely odd your aunt would do something like that when she new there was an event.

I'd be upset too! I'm sorry that this happened to you!

Its hard to know what happens when one wedding party goes through everything you want them to do and be at the time about. Backing out the month before is hard to hear. Though you knew it would happen, you handled it perfect and know your wedding day is going to be smooth without any distractions or annoyance.

That sounds so frustrating! I admire that you're handling it so well - I don't know how I would react if one of my girls decided to bail on my wedding to go on a trip.. She couldn't have waited until the next day? Smh.