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Sonia
Beginner November 2020 Alberta

Bridesmaid Dresses

Sonia, on October 14, 2019 at 23:43 Posted in Wedding fashion 0 10

I have 3 bridesmaid. (This is a long story sorry - Thank you for reading)

One of my bridesmaid Ana (Also my sister) is not listening to the kind of style I would like for my wedding.

What I would like

-Flowy
-Not skin tight
-No too short at all
-Little to no cleavage at all
-No slit down the side of the dresses

and it has to be royal blue no other blue.


Anyways sorry about that -so my sister Cathy is my MOH and she was picking dresses that fall in the options i would like and that she would be comfortable in because she hates skin tight dresses. So my sisters and I are talking about dresses. Ana sends 10 pictures about dresses. I said no not what i would like at all. They were skin tight, ALOT of cleavage showing, slit down the middle of the dress, short, or just to long (my sisters and other bridesmaid are under 5'4''). I told her no I do not like those dresses at all. My MOH also states she hates spaghetti straps. Okay - a week passed and I show my sister Ana this dress that is so beautiful and it falls in all the category I would like. Ana tells me "But it's only one shoulder strap though". I said that is fine because it doesn't show cleavage. Her response "Is that what Lucy(Other bridesmaid name) want?". I told her no it is what i like. Her response was "that is weird". Ana as yet to talk to me.


So what do I do now?

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Latest activity by Sonia, on November 10, 2019 at 12:18
  • Sonia
    Beginner November 2020 Alberta
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    I like that answer 😊
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  • Taylor
    Devoted October 2021 Alberta
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    Wear the dress or be a guest

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  • Sonia
    Beginner November 2020 Alberta
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    My oldest sister is now not talking to me. She told the maid of honour all the dresses are ugly. So now I’m just like this day is about me and my fiancé no one else.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    I agree with this. You gave them the option to find their own dresses, now you might just need to step in with a choice for them, and they can suck it up.

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  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
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    I would just find a dress you like and tell them this the dress. azazie has tons of royal blue dresses that are cheaper and better than davids bridal and they can get custom sizing so you wont need alternations

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Hmmmm, hard to say - I'm the youngest of me and my Sister and I'm 22 and not that immature...

    But to be quite honest, if my sister was acting like that I would tell our parents and see what they had to say. It's not the best option but it's an option!

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  • Sonia
    Beginner November 2020 Alberta
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    I would like to give her the benefit of the doubt but she is now ignoring me till she gets her way. We were gonna go dress looking in November but I don’t know when she will talk to me again.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Hmmmm, it doesn't sound that bad tbh - just sounds like she is giving her opinion in a way that she will hopefully get her way. I say that if the dresses are available in store then all of you should make a trip to try it on ~ or if they are ordered online then have a wine night with all your girls and make sure you are all on the same page.

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  • Sonia
    Beginner November 2020 Alberta
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    My MOH and myself would like everyone to wear the same dresses. So no one stands out as much. As our sister Ana likes to be the main of attention. And leave be to the side.
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    Is the dress available in different styles?


    For example, if Lucy likes the one shoulder style and Ana likes spaghetti strap style and Cathy likes strapless style, is it possible to order the dress in different styles so everyone can get a dress they’re comfortable with?
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