I am having a hard time deciding on whether I want go with the trend of giving robes/t-shirts for the bridesmaids to get ready in. The photographer will likely only be there for me getting into my dress, so we don't need the "matching gowns" type of photo. Also, I am pretty self conscious in a robe (fear of flashing!), and as the bridesmaids are plus size, I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable in an article of clothing. Who has/hasn't done the clothing gift thing?