Bridal party feuds

Honestly if they cant put aside their differences for you, then that's their problem. I would pick the MOH and find a different bridesmaid, or like Lisa said and only have a MOH. Then there would be no awkwardness.

I only have a MOH and a bridesmaid and my FH has one BM and one groomsman. His side is his 2 brothers and my side is my bestfriend since age 12 and my sister in law, they don't know each other particularly well. We are all over 40 and as far as I know we are all drama free. I would agree with what everyone else has said tell everyone what is going on and if they can't be civil and work together for the wedding then the bridesmaid is out. See how they do.

I think it is your wedding and that if they are really your good friends then they can act civilly toward one another for one day. I would say that if you really want to avoid any type of drama then Lisa's suggestion makes the most sense.

Honestly the best decision we made was only having a maid of honour, best man, flower girl and ring bearer! This way there is noy feud, no drama. If you drama is going to happen and you haven't even asked yet, my guess is it will happen after you ask, and it will be a constant struggle. Every bride friend of mine I've spoken too, ends up saying they with they would have done what we did and just had a maid of honour and best man! It will make your life so much easier!

I agree with Lesley. Maybe run it by your MOH and let her know that the other girl will potentially be your bridesmaid and see how she feels about it. Hoepfully they can be adults about it and realize this is your big day and it's about you and they can set aside their differences to make you happy!

How many people in the bridal party are you thinking of? I'd be a bit concerned because MOH will likely be in contact with the BMs. I would ask your MOH first and see how it goes when you let your prospective BM know that your friend is MOH.