Bought a wedding dress i no longer like

View quoted message Oh my! I’m so sorry. What don’t you like about it? Can you make any small changes so that it’s your dream dress again? I unfortunately, never fell back in love with my dress. I never picked it up and purchased another dress for $2000. If I could go back in time I still wouldn’t pick up the dress I hated but I would buy a dress from Lulus.com. Have you checked Jed them out? They have a bridal section and they really do have beautiful white dresses for $100-$200. Check them out if you really can’t fall back in love with your dress. All the best!

I custom made a dress with little knowledge of what I liked & dont like (EVEN THO IVE TRIED ON LOTS OF DRESSES) & I absolutely hate it..... & no budget for another dress 🥲🥲🥲

I agree with Natasha. It's a big commitment and more money than we normally spend on clothes so of course you're going to second guess yourself. Do you think you still would have bought it if you hadn't felt pressured? It sounds like it will look amazing on you and you were happy with it initially!

Can you go back to the shop and try it on again with your MOH? It's so hard to see all the little things from pictures so maybe that's why she didn't go crazy about it over text. If there's something majorly wrong with the dress, then you might want to consider forfeiting the deposit and finding another dress. If you really liked it but don't like that you were pressured, you should hold on to the dress. It will be so different once you try on "your" dress and the alterations are made.

Do you have any pics you can show us?

I think this happens alot .. I still feel this way about my dress and it doesnt come in until April,,,, i second guess myself .. but as my MOH and my mom say just wait till you have it on again all fitted and you will rememebr why you chose it and how it made you feel the moment you had it on!

Dress regret is real!! I literally had the exact same thing happen. I was torn between 2 dresses but if I bought from the store I did they took a percentage off and threw in a bunch of stuff free (like my veil). Well my mom went and put the deposit down and I spent weeks freaking out about it. My MOH had to talk me down reassuring me it was gorgeous and the other dress would have cost as much after all my alterations (cost was part of my freak out). Hearing the specifics of what looked good and worked heroes me feel ok... but when they dress came in and I tried it on again ALL doubt was gone!! If you can't wait until it comes in your size, maybe book another appointment to try it on. Our see if they'll move your deposit to another dress of you find you're REALLY unhappy with it.

Ooooh noo! I'm so sorry to hear this Stephanie! It's not nice to feel pressured... Buying your dress is such an exciting moment for you and everyone around. I'm sure they meant well... but this is too bad. Now let's see if we can find a solution. How is your dress like? What don't you like about it? Or what would you have preferred to have on your wedding dress?

Hi Stephanielarson, I'm so sorry to hear this. Dress shopping is suppose to be a milestone in a brides life and you should not have be pressured in buying a dress you don't like. I have never been in this position, but if you don't feel right about the dress this could mean that you need to look again. In this case if you buy the dress, you can resale it as brides are looking for dresses and get the dream dress you want or try the dress again and note what you like and dislike and see if this is the one you wish to wear on your wedding day. Hope this helps.