Boring bride

Hahaha you're definitely not boring to us Katherine! This is all we talk about! It's actually what we try to do in the community and why this forum is so much fun. Because it will probably be on your mind for a loooong time! Not everyone can relate, but we can. So feel free to post all the time about your wedding in here. We love to see all the ideas you come up with! I can't wait to see all your ideas! So... lace table cloth, huh? Which ones have you been looking at?

Haha I'm worried about being a boring wife! We were engaged for 2.5 years and the wedding actually gave us something to talk about when we would meet up with people other than "work sucks, same old same old." I definitely got frustrated at times when my bridal party wasn't really invested or my mom kept questioning all our decisions instead of being excited so I definitely agree that you should tell us all about it! No one else appreciates it like other brides and grooms and I wish I'd found this community sooner!

Like some others- I have been using WW as my outlet! Luckily everyone on here wants to hear about nothing BUT your lace table cloths and help you decide if eight strings of crystals in you hair too much! I also spend work-time doing wedding things it's ok- we can be extra productive when we get the wedding organized!

I try not to mention wedding plans to others in my life until someone asks...but when they do it is a flood gate. Poor souls. Keeping things to a minimum is hard- it is a big deal! And when someone says what's new? Wedding stuff is always the answer I try to just say wedding planning and move on.

It's tough!

I am in the same boat, but I just now keep it to myself or share with all the lovely ladies here that love to hear all about your wedding plans ... i have decided it will be good to keep some mystery from all my family and friends so unless they ask I am not telling and even if they ask i still may not tell if it is not must need to know information !! I agree with Valerie and lean on all of us here in the community I have found everyone to be an amazing support system from ideas, to venting and planning and every little detail in between !!

Oh and P.S dont worry I am at work too on here lol when I should be worried about my Technicians and my Warehouse lol

I am the same way! Wedding talk is always on my mind. However I wait for other people to question me about things with the wedding before I bring anything up that way it doesn't seem like I am only talking about the wedding. I usually only talk wedding on a regular basis with my wedding party as they are involved in the planning! I work overnights and at a group home so when I have down time I work on guest lists, seating charts, I have looked up flowers, ect...

It's totally natural! It's such a big event that requires SO MUCH planning, of course it kind of takes over your life. Lean on us here in the community to get out all your ideas and plans and wedding talk. Keep it to a minimum with your family and friends and believe me... in no time they will be DYING for information!

Also it will fade, I found after I got all my major items planned, there wasn't much news to tell people, so I didn't say anything.

I also like to spread it out. I'll ask my MOH for an opinion on bouquets, then my sister (BM) her opinion on a bracelet I'm thinking about. Then I find I'm not burning everyone out

And we LOVE wedding talk!!! Come in here and talk our faces off