Baking your own cake

I thought about it, but decided if I had to DIY one thing, it would be my outfit for the day. I'm planning to give a recipe to a friend who is much better at decorating. I made my mom's (second marriage) wedding brownies when I was a teen with the help of an aunt, and some friends to make chocolate flowers, but it was a lot of work, and I can't imagine putting myself though trying to get something perfect with such a small window of time. At least with sewing, I can make something and it could sit there for months if it has to, or have last minute safety pins if I fall behind.

If you have a particular recipe or type of cake you want, finding someone to use that instead would be a lot less stressful.

Oh we had a baker not too long ago about this exact subject, doubting it. they were going to freeze it and have someone take it out the day of the wedding. If you have the time go for it, also adds a special touch.

Baking is your thing and peace of mind, make your own cake. There isn't anything wrong with the way you make it since you will be cutting it for the photos. It also is saving you money which works out great.

I bake on the side and debated it. However, everyone told me I was crazy and not to add the extra stress - also I would have to do it too many days before. I also dreamed of a 3 tier cake so... a lot more work. I don't regret my decision - the cake was so important to me. I really wanted something I'd never have the patience to do myself. I think if you're doing something simple and small go for it but if it has to be done too long before the wedding you're running the risk of serving a stale cake. Think about all the things you'll have going on that week - can you add that to your plate (no pun intended haha)?