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Jasmin
Curious October 2021 Ontario

Bacne scars

Jasmin, on September 9, 2019 at 01:19 Posted in Wedding fashion 0 12
Hey all!

Not sure if anyone else struggles with bacne and scarring...Do you think it’s worth getting a dress that you love but exposed your back? I’m a big worrywart, my own worst critic, and self conscious! I would probably need makeup to cover any bumps or scars, and also stop stressing myself out that people will notice the bumpiness! I also have mild scoliosis so my back is slightly rotated, but most people don’t notice unless I tell them or I am bending over (so my left side which is rotated to the back becomes even more pronounced). Perhaps I could use a veil or a half updo to have my hair cover the back?

TIA Smiley heart

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Latest activity by Ashley, on September 11, 2019 at 17:01
  • Ashley
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    I would put makeup on them! or have your hair down with extensions and do it curley or something!

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  • Jasmin
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    I hope so too! But sometimes some guests surprise u with a side u didn’t know they had 😂 seen a few dramatic scenes in past weddings 😆
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  • Becky
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    The day of and them being close they will say how much they love the dress and just congratulate you like crazy. If people are that bold to say something I would be shocked

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  • Jasmin
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    Thanks Katelyn for your message 💕 I’ve always been slightly neurotic about not wearing clothes that show my figure, lest ppl pointing out my twisted spine. At least at the wedding, I hope all my loved ones will just enjoy the celebration instead 😆 our venue does have natural lighting, luckily I think my back won’t be as illuminated as I walk in to the ceremony!
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  • Jasmin
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    Thank you!! 💕 I will try some low back dresses for sure!! I tried only dresses that somewhat covered my back and I just wasn’t feeling it... hopefully I find something that I love that much too!! I’m sure you will look absolutely amazing in your dress!!
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    Thanks Casey!! Yeah, it’s definitely something that my friends might not pay attention to, and I do hope they are into the actual wedding than focusing on my bacne!
    I’m going to a few bridal dress sales this month so I’ll definitely at least try some low backs!!
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  • Jasmin
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    Thanks Becky 🙏!! I forgot about photoshop 😂😂 I was worried mostly about the guests seeing it up close! Hopefully my dress makes me feel so good I forget about my back issues!
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  • Becky
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    I have this- its not noticeable to some people. i was worried about it showing up in photo's my makeup person said she could cover the area's I am worried about or my photographer said she could edit it out as well.

    I understand acne in general and its hard and for sure! Pick the dress you love and figure that part out after.

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  • Casey
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    As Tori mentioned, everyone has insecurities, and many guests are not going to see what we don't like about ourselves. Find a dress that you feel comfortable in! If you love the dress with the open back. I say go for it and rock it!


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  • Tori
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    IMO I say that if you don't feel happy and confident then it will show in pictures. I would try a couple on that have the back exposed and see how you feel. You may be surprised to see that you love the dress so much that you don't even care!

    Besides - everybody has insecurities! My dress is illusion back and I can't wear a bra or spanx because of it!! I'm nervous about it but I'm so focused on how good I look overall that I don't care if I even have a back roll!

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  • Katelyn
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    To be honest even if your back is exposed everyone is going to just see how beautiful you are. A veil would most likely hide it, but you don't have to hide it, you're beautiful and if people are coming to your wedding they love you the way you are. Also depending on where/when you are getting married for the most part it wouldn't be great lighting to show off tiny bumps on your back. You are beautiful, make yourself happy.
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