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Bachelorette party....

Ludvis, on May 8, 2018 at 11:15 Posted in Before the wedding 0 2

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Here we go again....

looking for ideas for what to do for bachelorette? we know the location and its a place with little things to do i mean literally, what can be planned for it and how can i ask as well as make sure i get money back.

after spending over $1500 on the shower, i dont want to be spending a lot on this party when it shouldnt be only me.... am i right or am i wrong?

why have i spent the most on this wedding aside from the bride and groom? how is this fair to me but yet no one says anything and especially with no thank you.

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on May 9, 2018 at 01:21

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Stephanie · On May 9, 2018 at 01:21
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Wow, that sucks! Good for you though for pitching in and helping your friend have a great bridal shower!
If I were in a similar situation, I would say, this is what I have planned and this is how much it will cost everyone. Please pay me by this date. If you don’t pay, you don’t come. If no one pays, then it’s just you and the bride. But, then you’re only spending money for two people instead of everyone else too.
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Jessica · On May 8, 2018 at 12:12
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Where will the bachelorette be? If there isn't much to do, make the most of the location, and do things that involve some fun that would be little cost. Perhaps a spa-day that you have. Everyone can pitch in for some nail polish and bath salts and you can all do your own manicures/pedicures.
I think it is important that you discuss your concerns with the rest of the bridal party and see if they can help? Also, keep in mind that while you want the bride to have a wonderful experience, there are low-cost options that you can do, so don't feel like you have to spend a lot of money on them. I'm sure the bride appreciates the love and support, but only do what you are able to!
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