We are now at the point of getting rsvps from our guests! So far it hasn’t been too bad! Simple questions from people which is fine!
But tonight I got a rsvp from my cousin (4th cousin) asking if she could bring her one year old. Her words were “ Can’t wait!!! Is the little man allowed to rage along before the parents let loose?”
This is so awkward.. my family all know we are only having a few kids that are immediate family and they are in our wedding ceremony. Also my cousins sister messaged a few days ago and told me they were having a hard time looking for a babysitter. My son won’t even be at my reception like it’s just a preference we want. We have told our very best friends in our wedding party that we are only doing immediate family and they completely understood. So imagine if I tell one person yes your child can come (he’s 1). I just don’t feel like it’s fair to everyone else that I let her son come. I wanted our ceremony to be baby/kid free for our ceremony and it’s not a direct attack at my cousins baby, it’s just our preference! Lastly for her wedding she had in Mexico she only invited her immediate family and NO kids…. I hate that she put me in this awkward situation…
What do I say to her?? 😭😭