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Kaytee
Devoted September 2017 Alberta

Are you getting your rings soldered?

Kaytee, on November 7, 2017 at 11:19 Posted in Just married 0 28
I wasn't sure if I was going to or not but I just couldn't stand them being apart on my finger. I was told that it would take two weeks but apparently, it takes a month. Zzzzzz.


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Latest activity by Stephanie, on February 23, 2018 at 15:43
  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    My fiance and I were just talking about this today! He thought I should get it done before the wedding so on the day he would be putting the wedding and engagements rings on. But, I'm not sure that I want to be apart from my engagement ring right before the wedding! Plus, he won't let me see the ring beforehand so I don't know how it will feel separated.

    I'm going to leave them apart for now but might end up getting them soldered. If I do, I will probably do it while we are gone on our honeymoon (since we are delaying it) that way I won't really miss them!

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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    I'm definitely getting mine soldered. They came as a set, and my wedding band is extremely thin, so I can't imagine I could ever wear it on it's own, so to make sure I don't loose it, I'll be getting them soldered.

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  • Sapphire
    Curious August 2016 Alberta
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    Interesting! Never thought about that before.

    I wear mine separately depending on the occasions.
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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    That makes sense.

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  • Brenda
    Expert April 2018 Ontario
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    Not having it done. I think it makes sense but I want to able to wear either or for different activities.
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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    That is nice that yours sits flat so it doesn't bother you.


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  • Joey
    WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland
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    I did not, but mine originally were a set so fit together very well. They spin around so I fiddle with them a bit but I don't mind that. I like being able to take off my e-ring for yoga and keep my wedding band on (it sits very flat to my hand so it doesn't bother me when I exercise). My sister's rings weren't a set so didn't fit flush together so she got her soldered.

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    Very pretty!


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  • Ashleigh
    Devoted August 2018 Ontario
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    I don't event really want a wedding band, it doesn't suit my ring. I may pick something out and wear it on my other hand. This is the wedding band that goes with my ring, it's $500 and it completely changes the look of my beautiful engagement ring and not in a good way. It would need to be soldered.

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  • Daphne
    Super July 2017 British Columbia
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    I didn't even know this was a thing or even possible. Not sure I would like it, but it definitely is a great idea to make sure things stay put.

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    That would be very annoying!


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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I had my rings fused and it only took a day. Due to the shape of my wedding band and engagement ring they were constantly separating in different directions which was very annoying.

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    I won't be. I want them to be separate.
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  • Bethany
    Super July 2018 Alberta
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    I will be!!
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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    It really is the weirdest feeling. I would be terrified that it would fall and I wouldn't notice. I mean, I would because of weight but I get bad feelings.


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  • Kayla
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    I keep going back and forth on the idea, but my rings spinning is really starting to bother me.


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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    Good call Smiley smile


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  • Ap2017
    Super September 2017 Ontario
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    I hear ya. My engagement ring moves around a lot - I'm blessed with big knuckles and small fingers, so I new there was no chance that I wanted the rings to not be soldered.

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    I think I would have done that too if mine wasn't going to take so long. I had them not soldered on our honeymoon and it was a little awkward lol.


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  • Ap2017
    Super September 2017 Ontario
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    I had mine done before the wedding. It was done the Monday before so I was without my engagement ring for a week (because I wasn't 'allowed' to wear my wedding bands before we were married lol), but I wanted it done before since we left right away on our honeymoon. And it took a week at our jeweler, for time reference. But they were also making the bands, so maybe that made it easier/quicker to solder together?

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    Aw, I miss that feeling!


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  • Ashley
    Super June 2018 Alberta
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    Oh it has already!! feels like yesterday that it was a year. Now its less than that! lol

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    That is so exciting! It will come fast lol.

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  • Ashley
    Super June 2018 Alberta
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    June 2, 2018. Little less than 7 months left!! EEEEKK!!

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    Congrats! When are you getting married?


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  • Ashley
    Super June 2018 Alberta
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    Worth the wait. im going to get mine put together after the wedding as well

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  • Kaytee
    Devoted September 2017 Alberta
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    Of course. Smiley smile I thought it was going to cost so much but our jeweler that we got the rings from, did it for free. It was a nice surprise.


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  • Ashley
    Expert March 2018 Ontario
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    I will deffinately be looking into it, but it would be something I would get done after the wedding!

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