4 months away starting to stress

Hi Emilie:

So far we've been thinking about having different suits, or maybe the same suit with different accessories.

Hi Nelly

That's great! I'd love to see the style you'll both choose for groom and wedding party

Will they all wear the same suit or different ones?

Wow these are beautiful Jennalyn!!

Did you make them yourself? I really like the snowflake! That will look great for your Winter wedding!

Do you know if you'll wear a coat or cover up over your wedding dress?

I had these ideas for winter brides, I'd love to get your feedback in the discussions :

Wedding Dress Cover Ups for Winter

Will you wear boots under your wedding dress?

In what type of venue will you celebrate your wedding?

That's great Valerie! I look forward to the Thanksgiving meal too!

Where are you at in your DIY?

I have actually been able to check a few things off my list. I made my boutineeres the one with the purple feather is the grooms and the other will be for groomsmen and fathers.

This week we will be looking for all the men's tuxedos. Groom, dads, grandfathers, groomsmen and best man. Still to early to look for ring boys

Thanksgiving and 3 families... All my plans include driving and eating turkey this weekend

Great idea Nelly! Is that the way you've been doing it so far?

What's on your wedding planning this week?

That's a very useful tip Valerie!!

What's on your planning this week?

Hi Jennalyn

That's amazing! I'm glad you're finding that solution helpful!

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As for your fiancé's tastes in suits... I understand why you would want to go for a safer option

Have a look at these styles, tell us which one is your favourite! We'll try to help out!

Groom suit and style. Which one?

Funny Groomsmen Pictures

What tasks do you have for this week? Anything we can help with or give you ideas?

Can't wait to see what you've planned!!

Sorry you're stressed, but welcome to the community!

Just take it one thing at a time to not get overwhelmed. I like to plan out what Ièm going to do during the week and try and run out to stores to pick up any supplies I need and then use my weekend to actually do things! I literally write it in my calendar like an appointment.

I'm sorry to hear that you're stressed, wedding planning should be fun and amazing not stressful. Why don't you try and break down your wedding tasks weekly and get them crossed off your to do list.

Thanks for the suggestions everyone. My fiance will be helping to pick the guys outfits but if I was to leave it up to him they would be wearing jeans and tshirts not suits. I have taken your advice and have started to break down my to do list into tasks to complete each week so i dont have such an overwhelming list all at once.

Hi Jennalyn Welcome to the community!

I hear you, wedding planning can sometimes add on to the rest of your life activities and become quite overwhelming. Just remember why your doing all of it. Be with your special someone to live your happily ever after!

I think you've done quite a lot already. You can be proud of yourself!! And don't worry we'll all be there for you in these next steps to make this big day very special! Let's take it step by step:

- Transportation: Wedding Transportation Toronto

- Men's suit: Wedding Suits Toronto

I also created this discussion on the groom's style. How do you like these ideas? Will you fiancé be choosing his suit and accessories?

8 style details for the groom

9 flower ideas for the Groom's Boutonniere

- DIY decor: What decor elements are you looking for?

How do you like these suggestions? Do you find them helpful?

Tell us what you have to do and we'll try to help out by giving you ideas! Any question you may have, we're here for you no matter what

Hi Jennalyn,
I'm so sorry to hear that you are stressed. Definitely, reach out to anyone in your wedding party to see if they could help you or even your close family and friends. Also, I would recommend taking a break from planning when overwhelmed by doing things that fun and re-group. Also, be encouraged that all the planning you have done are and are going to complete will come together for your wedding.

Oh No!

It is good that you have a list- this close to the wedding organization will be key!

Do you have some friends and family you can lean on for help? Would your FH be able to handle the men's suits on his own? What about some friend's with children (older ones maybe) who would be happy to help with DIY crafts for you?

Maybe see about going to a bridal show with a friend to help find your inspiration again? Or just relax with a glass of wine and magazine after work one day.

also: welcome to the community, you did come to the right place!