We are about 2 months out from our wedding. Since we started planning, we envisioned having a small, intimate wedding with our family and close friends- guest list is around 55-60- we are having a church wedding followed by restaurant reception. Our initial idea was that it would just be dinner, drinks, cake and mingling, no dance party as we aren't dancers and we don't think our guests are really dancers either. We will just have jazz playing over restaurant sound system. However, as we've gotten closer to our wedding, we have more doubts about this. Is this boring/lame? We decided we'd like to do a first dance together and have taken some lessons for this. But then I read on some forum that it is weird/rude for the couple to do a first dance but not otherwise have dancing. This leaves us in a weird place- do we open space, music, time for dancing and risk no one getting on the floor (we don't envision doing much dancing other than our first dance- I'd rather talk and visit with my guests)? Or do we just do our first dance and not open space, music and time for dancing and possibly come off as weird/rude? Am I over-thinking it?
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