Women who can’t attend bachelorette

I agree with having a girls' night when they do get in the couple days before. I'm trying to figure out the logistics of having a bachelorette with everyone but from what it looks like, a few will probably have to miss out so I'm looking at having a more laid-back, but still fun bachelorette a few days before when everyone can get here.

Why don't you arrange a special post wedding day brunch with the people coming from far away? Nice way to include them when you can! Before the wedding would be a lot of extra stress but a nice brunch the next day would be great!

Have the bachelorette party you want with just the ladies you know locally going where you enjoy being or wine tour/dining out in Niagara or in the area for lunch and something fun (bowling, rock climbing, etc.) that everyone will want to be there.

Have a girls night! Go out for dinner, wine tour, drinks, an escape room, something fun with a bunch of girls!

You can still have the whole "bachelorette" fun without even going out. Have a little party at home, decorate etc.

I say to have a girls night when they get there! You don't have to go all out and get smashed, but you could do supper and games with wine! I'm sure that it will be a good time even if it isn't technically a bachelorette party.

The only other thing is if you FaceTime them while the party is going on

I've got the same thing and I'm gonna ask them if they wanna go out for dinner and maybe do something touristy / craft (paint nite) / espace room or something like that. I'm going leave it very much up to them (I am making reservation but I'll see whoever wants and else just go with family who's coming over or cancelling it) and not pinning them down to it or whatever, since they are here on vacation of course. I am actually not having a seperate bachelorette beforehand though