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Joey
WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland

Who will plan your bridal shower?

Joey, on June 26, 2019 at 08:27 Posted in Before the wedding 0 15

Who is the hostess with the most-ess? Who is taking charge of planning your bridal shower? Have they given you any input on the plans?

Who will plan your bridal shower? 1

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Latest activity by Janaya, on July 3, 2019 at 13:34
  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya ·
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    My younger sister (she's 10) and my momma! my sister did almost all of it and it was so beautiful. we have the same taste in everything haha

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    My mother and sister (MOH) planned it.

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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    This topic has not been discussed by anyone to my knowledge. So not sure if I'm having one and if so who would be hosting it.

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  • Amanda
    Super June 2019 Ontario
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    I planned and booked most of it.. my bridesmaids did the games and had a few surprises.
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    My mom is, I'm very anti-shower myself but I can't talk her out of it lol! Knowing the guest list, it will be good.

    We're doing a bbq with the guys afterwards which will be fun and what I'm most looking forward too!

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    My mom, sister and FMIL are "planning" it but we all have different tastes so I threw out a theme and my sister is showing me decor and stuff.

    Other than that, they are doing it and it's up to them!

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  • Marissa
    Expert August 2019 Ontario
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    My mom and sister (MOH) are throwing me one, but it's all supposed to be a surprise. I'm not sure who will come, tbh, because all of my FH's family is still in Ireland right now and won't get here until the wedding. I'm sure it will be lovely, but I am a bit sad that only my side will be able to attend.
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  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
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    Mine was planned and hosed by a dear aunt. I only had a MOH in my wedding party and she lives out of town and was unable to travel to throw a shower.

    I also had an after-the-wedding shower thrown by some friends who still wanted to celebrate (my wedding was small and only included family) and see the wedding pics once they were in.

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  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    I did not want a bridal shower at all... but my mother made a big stink about not being involved in anything. As such we are having a two hour shower on the same day as my bachelorette. So kind of separate / kind of combined events.


    All I know is it will be like an afternoon tea at my mothers house, and then we will be leaving and moving on to the stagette activities which my MOH is planning.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    No one planned for me as it wasn't needed. Generally though, the families can plan together as one or 2 seperate depending on the mothers. Siblings also like to get involved to put for their sister or sister in law to be.
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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    My MOH is planning my shower, with a bit of help from my mom! Won’t be until end of April, but I’m already looking forward to it!
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    I have had quite the bit of drama surrounding my shower. Step Mom planned one with just my Dad's side of the family, doing a high tea in a smaller room (I didn't want a huge shower, or anything in a hall). So my FMIL was a little upset that her family wasn't invited (except the siblings and grandmothers) but she never contacted my Step Mom.

    So anyways. My Step Mom is planning one shower, and my FMIL is planning another one. SO I will get 2 smaller showers, which is better in my eyes because then you get the chance to socialize with everyone, and not leave anyone out. If we did it all together it would probably be close to like 100 people.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    My Mom will - she will probably enlist in the help of my BM's. My FMIL has offered to set up and tear down at the Wedding Shower itself Smiley smile

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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    My mom and FMIL are planning my shower with help of the wedding party and siblings. They are doing it at local hall that's local for both and brunch and bubbly theme! Looking forward to it

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    My mom and my FMIL are planning my ‘shower’. I’ve told them that I trust them and they have free reign to plan. The only thing that I’ve asked for input on is that I’d like for them to not call the event a ‘shower’ because I don’t need to be showered with gifts (our tiny apartment is packed as it is) and instead for any one who’d like to give me something please donate to our local mental health hospital.
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