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Jessica
Newbie June 2025 Ontario

When to have an engagement party?

Jessica, on October 11, 2019 at 13:51 Posted in Before the wedding 0 7
I just got engaged about 2 weeks ago and I’m not sure when we should have an engagement party or if we should at all. We are planning on waiting until I finish off school for the wedding so we don’t have an exact date, we just know it will be between 2022 & 2025.


So I guess my real question is, should I have an engagement party now, since we just got engaged, or should we wait until we set a date which could be anywhere from 1-3 years, or should I just not have one at all since most people I know skip that anyways?

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Latest activity by Ashley, on October 16, 2019 at 16:38
  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
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    I would do it nowish. or next summer and then narrow down a month and year so at ur engagement party you can announce ur timing!

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    I would say to have it within the first year - after that you may feel like you missed you chance since the excitement will be gone and it wouldn't be news to anybody.

    I waited about 3 months and felt like even that was too long and just didn't feel comfortable having one after that.

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    I agree with Chelsea. We didn't have an engagement party, but if we were it would have been a couple months after we got engaged.

    You are celebrating your engagement! I would say do it within the first year of being engaged, especially if your wedding isn't for a couple years. Its a great way to get both families together before all the planning starts

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Admin January 2025 Galway
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    Hey Jessica!

    There is no set timeline for when you must have your engagement party by, so it totally depends on what you and your FS want.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    It depends on what you want! You could have it now, since you are engaged and want to celebrate it or wait until you have a date set. People will probably ask about your date at your engagement party, so that might be something you want to consider.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    I would do it right away! The engagement party is to celebrate the engagement - which is happening now! My engagement party was July 2018, and my wedding won’t be until June 2020
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  • Melissa
    Devoted September 2021 Ontario
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    I would wait until you have a date set and throw the party a year before the wedding. This is just my opinion, I like the idea of having an engagement party since it brings both families together and you get to celebrate you and your FH with a smaller more intimate crowd if you are having a bigger wedding.

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