What's on your newlywed bucketlist?

Haha yes spite them! We're not planning on having kids and whenever we tell people that they're like "why?" I actually had someone say "but they add meaning to your life" and I was thinking "ok we are not getting into a conversation right now about how my life can't have meaning if we don't have kids!" Also, every year when we go to my baby nephew's birthday all the other moms are like "when are you guys having kids?" and when I say we're not they're like "but you're so good with them!" Yes I can be good with kids and not want my own. They're not mutually exclusive...

I'm not ruling it out completely but we definitely want to enjoy being together for now. We can barely afford ourselves so there's no way we can add someone else to the mix! We're happy with our puppy daughter (or dogter as my mom calls her!)

First on our list was our honeymoon! We've taken a lot of trips together but it was our first true vacation. We loved it so much and definitely want to go back sometime! Maybe for our 5 year anniversary. I would really love to take my husband to France sometime and show him around. I'd love to live there for like a year but I'm not sure how we'd manage that. Now that we're married, we want to move around and spend a year here and a year there before settling down near our families. Hopefully in 2018 we can move to Vancouver or Portland or DC!

It is SO personal! Like, I talk to friends about things like that, but it seems so odd to assume someone wants to shre that stuff.

Also, they are both half right half wrong. We have no timeline, just goals...like house first, debt paid so we space and you know- food and stuff.

Ew!! I don't understand people... I would find out what they guessed and purposely have them a different time just so no one wins!! (I'm spitefull like that lol)

I had one of FH's friends ask about it the other day... like I don't know... GET OFF MY BACK! (I get weirdly upset when people ask lol, seems like an incredibly personal question to just randomly ask someone)

Yeah I also .. as much as nothing is really going to change in our home life .. but I want my son to adjust nicely I just dont want to get married and then BAM a baby .. dont want to throw a whole pile of new on my son thats not fair .. so we will take our time like we did with our engagment and go with the flow !

Ew. I know. My mom is being horrible about kids- and she and my FMIL had made a "bet" about the timeline.

I think it is really nice to wait and enjoy the being married thing a bit- we are going to do the same I want to be able to appriciate each stage of our relationship for what it is before moving on!

The usual, house, family eventually (we've already been getting plenty of questions on when we're having kids... so annoying). Aside from being able to call him my husband, nothing on the immediate horizon though.

We already have our house ... so we are hoping to add to our family and make our little bundle the joining link ... but we arent planning on trying that till the fall of 2018 as I have my little brothers wedding I am in July 2018 .. so we want to just enjoy being husband and wife for a year !

A house is #1 on our list! We need a place to grow our family...which is a few years down the list

As far as first thing to do, I want to call him my husband for the first time