Wedding Vow Struggles

So I wrote my vows - I also got vow books from Etsy as well. My tip is put a little note in your phone every day. What you like about him, what he does that makes you laugh etc. Anything that you feel would be nice to say on the day.

I started 6 months ago - And I jot down little things and then I made sense of it all. So every day write something - you have time

that’s my tip ☺️

View quoted message We are getting personalized notebooks, likely from Etsy. We figure they will be nice in pictures on the day of, and as a keepsake!

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Pinterest helped me a ton. I followed a couple templates that really helped, and then added my own spin.

Our officiant also gives us a huge list of traditional and contemporary vows, and then how to write your own. Both of these have been very helpful!

I just finished writing mine, and I'm very happy with them! I kept adding notes in my phone whenever I thought of something I thought I might want to say, or heard a good way to phrase things. Then, I started to put them together until I felt it flowed nicely. It's sentimental and personal, and still has a couple of funny bits to keep it light as well.

My dilemma now is what do I write them on to take with me? Note cards, a small book?

We are getting lots of inspiration from Pinterest! We've agreed that we are going to find a "template" to follow so that ours are similar in length and structure.

Although I am not writing vows - if I were I would probably list a bunch of annoying things he does and tell him I love him in spite of them